JULY 2024 – Things My Mama Taught Me

“The Mother’s heart is the child’s schoolroom.” – Henry Ward Beecher

All of us had a mother and, hopefully we were raised by a loving, blessed mother we remember with joy… or perhaps by a grandmother, aunt, or loving female mentor who showed us “mother love.” It’s unlikely any of us had a perfect mother, despite the romantic sonnets of bards and poets of the past, but most of us can look back and see the strengths and virtues of our mothers and realize the valuable principles, morals, and wisdom our mothers taught to us. If we look back and see some of their mistakes, we can learn from those, too, and not repeat them in our own lives. I think all mothers deserve a hand for simply taking on the job of motherhood at all. It is one of the hardest, most thankless jobs in the universe. Even in our world today, when most mothers also work outside the home and fathers share more of the child-rearing and home responsibilities, mothers still carry the bulk of the responsibility of childcare, including shopping, meal preparation, housekeeping, and shuffling children to all their outside activities.

As kittens, geese, or other animals learn and imprint from their mothers, we learn from the mothers who raise us. Our mothers, whether they realize it or not, are our teachers. They model the way we should live and think. They teach us what is important not only by their words but by their example. For most of us, our mother’s voice, words of love, encouragement, caution, and concerns, are ever in the background of our minds. A mother’s teaching, especially if it is good, strong, and true, can have a powerful impact on a life. George Washington said, “All I am I owe my mother. I attribute all my successes in life to the moral, intelligent and physical education I received from her.” Others have also written beautiful words about their mothers. John Wesley said: “My mother was the source from which I derived the guiding principles of life.” I doubt either of their mothers, caught up in the busyness of their days, the demands of childrearing and life, realized they were making such an impact on their sons, but the inescapable fact is: Mothers teach us and they make a difference in our lives.

As little children we lean to and look up to our mothers, loving to hold our mother’s hand and to listen to her read to us, bringing her little bouquets of flowers from the yard, writing her love-notes, and sharing with her all the thoughts and happenings of our day. As we grow older and more independent, we naturally pull away, establishing our own identity, detaching, and seeing with time our mothers in a less idealistic way. Oddly, as we age, and I think especially after we lose our mothers, we look back and see them more idealistically again, realizing all they gave to us, all they gave up to raise us, all the good and worthwhile teachings they planted into our lives and nurtured. We acknowledge even more then how they shaped us, in part, to be what we are today. We are more ready to sing their praises and give them honor for it.

As I grew older, I thanked my mother on many occasions for the lessons she taught me, the love she gave freely, and for the good, virtuous, loving example of her life she ever modeled before me. It was often my mother who was there, standing beside me in the darkest times. Washington Irving wrote: “A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity.” I’m blessed to look back and remember my mother was always there for me in good times and bad, and was also my friend.

What did your mother teach you? Have you ever thought about it seriously beyond admonitions like “Don’t put your elbows on the table,” “Remember to wipe your feet,” and “Don’t forget to say please and thank you.” I decided to see if I could think of things my mama taught me, and here is my list of ten things I am especially grateful for.

  1. THE LOVE OF FAMILY

From the first my mother modeled and taught the importance of the love of family. Respect, love, and thoughtfulness was expected in our home and the concept of “honor your father and mother” was well taught. Both my parents had been raised in large, loving families and I saw the love of family ever modeled, too, in visits to the homes of grandparents, aunts and uncles.

  1. A LOVE AND APPRECIATION OF NATURE

Mother and dad both had a love for nature and the outdoors. They loved their yard and garden, and mother, especially, loved flowers. Her knowledge, and her awareness of appreciation for the natural world around her was often voiced. From my earliest years, she took me around the yard and garden teaching me about God’s beautiful creation, making me feel linked to the earth.

  1. A LOVE FOR NEIGHBORS AND FRIENDS

Most people who knew my mother remark about her hospitality, friendliness, caring, and her willingness to open her home, cook and share a meal, take gifts of food, flowers, or plants to others. She modeled the joy of sharing, opening her life and heart to others, ready to listen, and always ready to help. She loved people and cared for them with a genuine warmth and love.

  1. A LOVE FOR WORDS AND EDUCATION

Mother appreciated the beauty of written words, the privilege of education and learning of all kinds. She loved poetry and could quote many long poems, passages of literature, and she sang the words to songs and hymns freely, teaching them to my brother and me, too. It was always expected in our home that we would value growing in knowledge and give our best in school.

  1. A STRONG FAITH TO GUIDE YOUR LIFE

How blessed I was from the first to always be aware of God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit through the life of my mother and father. Both strong Christians, the concept of God’s love and that He wanted to guide and lead us every day was always instilled in me. I saw it in mother’s life, and dad’s, the basis for their actions, decisions, how they patterned their days.

  1. HOW TO LOVE OTHERS

I always saw a selflessness in my mother’s life, my dad’s too, both ever ready to share with others, to give to and help others. People talking about loving others is not as powerful as the example shown of truly loving others in action. At home, at church, in our neighborhood, at my school, mother was always there giving of her talents, time, and caring, a powerful teaching.

  1. A GOOD WORK ETHIC TO LIVE BY

My mother often quoted the old proverb: “Idle hands are the devil’s workshop” and she modeled a life of busy hands and work. After I was born, my mother, a former home economics teacher, stayed at home, but she worked at home diligently. She seldom had idle hands and chided me, too, if I did. She sewed, cooked, gardened, and gave time to church and civic efforts.

  1. HOW TO VALUE CREATIVE WORKS

Many of mother’s work efforts were creative ones. She wrote letters, created lessons and teachings for church and Bible school, put up vegetables, excelled in the garden and the Garden Club she belonged to. She made many of my clothes, was a gifted seamstress and craftswoman. She modeled the Oslo quote: “To be creative means to be in love with life.”

  1. THE IMPORTANCE OF A DISCIPLINED LIFE

My mother and my father lived a disciplined daily life. Time was not a commodity to be wasted and life and talents too precious not to be used. Frivolous, time-wasting activities were frowned upon as life was short and much good to be accomplished. Mother believed in a disciplined life of healthy eating, physical activity, reading, study, and time out-of-doors to be blessed by nature.

  1. TO REACH FOR YOUR. BEST

The stories Mother told and read to me, and her example, were filled with the concept of always doing your best in life, of using your talents wisely and well, of being a good, moral person, working to make the world a better place, caring for others, trusting God, following Him and trying in all things to strive for excellence, and never settling for less than one’s best.

These nuggets of wisdom I know I learned at home. Later, I think I tried to shrug off a lot of them, but then as I came to know the Lord personally and began to grow more in my faith, I found these same bits of wisdom ingrained in all the Biblical teachings I gained. I realized then how many of the things Mama taught me were a reflection of the wisdom of God her own mother, my grandmother, had taught to her. What a lovely legacy can be passed down.

My ongoing teacher now is the Lord, continuing to grow and refine me and to bring me to more good, true, and righteous knowledge to help me live the best life I can. So thanks to Mom for all she taught me, and to my dad, and all the good and righteous teachers along my way through life, to loving friends, and to all who have loved me and encouraged me to live a good and useful life.

“Just as the twig is bent, the tree’s inclined.” – Alexander Pope

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

 

JUNE 2024 – A Tribute to The Parks

For my June blog I wanted to share about J.L.’s and my ongoing journey of working on regional parks guidebooks… and I realized I’d already written on this subject for a recent essay I wrote and submitted for the 2024 DAR (Daughters of the American Revolution) American Heritage Essay Contest. I hope you will enjoy my entry–and some illustrative pictures I added to it.

Title: CELEBRATING THE STARS AND STRIPES IN BOOKS – by Dr. Lin Stepp

2024 American Heritage Contest Entry Essay – Non-Fiction Narrative – For the National Society Daughters of the American Revolution

The beautiful state parks across America are often overlooked as advocates of the Stars and Stripes and promoters of our country’s history and beauty. In most state parks, the U.S. flag is raised and displayed every day, a patriotic reminder of our country’s rich heritage. My husband J.L. and I held only scanty knowledge of the rich beauty and history hiding in our Tennessee state parks, just waiting to be discovered, until we began visiting them ourselves.

In the early 2000s, with our children grown and flown, J.L. and I had begun hiking in the Smoky Mountains. Not finding a hiking guide like we really wanted, geared more to visitors to the Smokies and to middle aged, non-Sierra Club types like ourselves, we ended up writing our own guidebook to 110 Smoky Mountain trails, THE AFTERNOON HIKER, published in 2014.

In 2013 in October, as that book was heading to press, the government shut down the national parks for a lengthy season. Fall is one of our favorite times of year to hike and explore out of doors, and we were disappointed we couldn’t head to the mountains to enjoy the trails.  My husband J.L. said, “Lin, there are hiking trails in the state parks. Go find us a good state parks guidebook and we’ll go there instead.” I checked the library, bookstores, several online sources, and soon told him, “There isn’t a single guidebook for Tennessee’s state parks. Even the research librarian who helps me locate data and information for my college classes couldn’t locate even one.” We looked at each other then and grinned. “I think that should be our next adventure,” he said. “Let’s visit them all and write another guidebook.”

We began to research and plan for that new book, around our jobs and my ongoing writing and book tour events for my novels, and in 2015 we finally began our travel trips to  the parks. Over the next two years, we visited all 56 of Tennessee’s state parks. In researching and planning for the book, we decided to divide the book into Tennessee’s three natural regions, East, Middle, and West Tennessee. We began our visits at the far Eastern end of Tennessee at Warriors Path State Park, Sycamore Shoals State Historic Park, and David Crockett Birthplace, working our way gradually across the state on weekend travels until we reached Tennessee’s final parks on the Mississippi River like Meeman-Shelby Forrest State Park, Fort Pillow State Park, and Reelfoot Lake State Park, the last park on our journey.

In writing our new guidebook later, we gave clear directions to each park, a description of all the things to do and see within the park, and we provided over 700 color photos throughout the book in illustration. We hiked multitudes of trails, visited historic sites and museums, explored battlefields and old forts, took historic tours, and learned more than we ever could imagine about the rich history and diversity of our state parks. Often, I wrote and added a “History Note” after a park description to further acquaint readers with aspects of how that park had formed and about its early settlers and historic significance. I often talked about Revolutionary and Civil War battles which had taken place at the parks, the lives of patriots, old homes, churches, and cemeteries within the parks, and about the early work of the Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) in building many of the roads, trails, and structures in the parks.

A surprise to us in nearly every park we visited was in learning that the U.S. flag was raised and lowered with honor and respect every day, often at the main visitor center or park office, but sometimes also over a historic fort or museum. We also saw old flags of the past honored in photos on walls of museums, and in historic buildings, with descriptions about their part in pivotal battles or in the lives of patriots. It was a rich lesson in the history of the United States, and of our home state of Tennessee, to visit these parks and to learn more than we expected to about our state and national heritage.

After completing our park visits, the next year was spent getting the book completed for publication, and in the spring of 2018, DISCOVERING TENNESSEE STATE PARKS published. It was, and is, to the best of our knowledge, the only book about Tennessee’s state parks, detailing each in descriptions with photos. The guidebook hit several bestseller lists. It raced into the top 5 in Amazon’s East South Central US Travel Books category. Book Authority ranked it #4 in Best Tennessee Travel Guide Books of All Time, featured also on CNN, Forbes and Inc, and the book became a finalist in the Travel Guides and Essays category in American Book Fest’s 2019 national contest, with over 2000 publisher entries. It was fun seeing our adventures appeal to so many, and knowing we were providing a roadmap for others to learn more about Tennessee’s heritage, beauty, and unique history, in every park they read about.

As mentioned earlier, I also write novels set around the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee and North Carolina, and others set at the South Carolina coast. As of today, I have twenty-three published novels, with two more publishing in March, and six guidebooks jointly written with my husband, and I give many talks at civic groups and organizations, like DAR groups, at libraries, book clubs, women’s conferences, and regional events. I mention this because when J.L. and I were in South Carolina in 2019 at a book signing at Barnes & Noble in Charleston, SC, the year after our Tennessee parks book published, the store’s Community Relations Manager (CRM) came out waving our TN parks guidebook. “We need one of these for South Carolina,” he said. “We got nothing, and people ask for books about our parks all the time. You guys need to write one of these for our state.” With pressure like this continuing, we decided to listen, and        over the next two years, around our other ongoing work and events schedule, J.L. and I took week-long visits, when we could, to work on a new South Carolina state parks guidebook.

South Carolina has less parks than Tennessee, and in South Carolina, many historic sites, military parks, and battlegrounds, which were governed under the state’s jurisdiction in Tennessee, were under the national park’s jurisdiction in South Carolina, so we decided to also include those parks in our guidebook. Many were also close to the state parks, as well, and we knew visitors would want to know about them and probably visit them, too. We ended up including a total of 55 state and national parks in this new guidebook, and we laid it out in format and design similarly to our published Tennessee guidebook.

Over the next two years we shared many interesting trips exploring and enjoying the lovely parks all over the state of South Carolina. Similar to our previous guidebook, we organized our parks into four geographic regions, the Upstate, Midlands, Pee Dee, and Lowcountry. South Carolina’s history is older than Tennessee’s, so we enjoyed learning even more about earlier times in America through our parks’ visits, especially in visiting many Revolutionary War and Civil War sites. Again, as in Tennessee, we often ran into DAR markers and history notes and the joy of seeing our national flag flown in nearly every park we visited. Several historic sites of particular interest were Ninety-Six National Historic Site, Charles Pinckney National Historic Site, Colonial Dorchester, Rivers Bridge, Andrew Jackson State Park, Kings Mountain, along with coastal Fort Moultrie and Fort Sumter.

Our new guidebook published in 2021 and it, too, has been a strong bestseller. As far as we know, there is no other current guidebook to all the parks in South Carolina, although, of course, different parks get mentioned or spotlighted in other books. We are so pleased that we have been able to bring our readers “armchair traveling” to the state parks to encourage them to visit them and to let them know more about the interesting places to see in each park. As in our first state parks guidebook, I wrote many “History Notes” after significant parks in South Carolina to teach readers more about the heritage and rich history of the parks.

As readers began to discover our guidebooks for Tennessee and South Carolina, we soon were encouraged to do a guidebook for the state of North Carolina, as well. It takes a lot more time to write a guidebook to a state’s many parks than most people would realize. Unlike many authors who write guidebooks only by researching and reading about them, we visit every park we write about. We research and gather data and information about each park before our visits, often reading extensively about history related to that park. I also study online sites and hiking guides to decide on the best trails to walk or hike while in a park. J.L. and I also study online photos to decide on specific sites we want to be sure to see—and perhaps photograph ourselves. On our park visits, we collect brochures, pick up maps, enjoy park tours, talk to rangers and staff members, and take multitudes of photos.

Our travels to visit parks, to bring them to life for our readers, involves a lot of planning and extensive travel. We create a detailed agenda before any week of visits, with our journey mapped out to travel in the most expedient way to the parks we plan to visit in an area. Despite the advent of GPS and other modern technology, J.L. and I always take printouts of park and state maps with us as we travel. Many parks are in remote areas where cellphones and other travel helps don’t work well, and we often find better routes to the parks than the ones  recommended. Finding good places to stay in proximity to the parks we plan to visit is yet another challenge.

On our return home, I write up the descriptions of our park visits for our book and introductory materials, like including a history at the beginning of each book about how the parks in the state developed. J.L. and I select the best photos to include, and then he creates and lays out each park page in InDesign. He also creates regional and alphabetical indexes for each book. Multiple edits follow, done both out of the publishing house and in. Our graphic designer creates the book covers, the state park maps included in each book, and other specialized pieces that make our books unique. It’s a long effort to get a book press ready, even after all the parks visits are completed. Yet, it is very rewarding to pass on the joy and learning—and rich history—of our visits to readers all over the U.S. and abroad.

This last year, in the summer of 2023, our third book VISITING NORTH CAROLINA STATE PARKS published after yet another two years of park visits. In the same year, two of my novels published, one a novel set in Cherokee, North Carolina, titled VISITING AYITA. Even in my novels I teach history to my readers. In this book I taught about the history of the Eastern Band of the Cherokee, about the town of Cherokee, its people, and heritage today. Others may be “history makers” in person but I love sharing history in books with my fans and readers. Every one of my Smoky Mountain books takes readers visiting to a new place around the mountains and I often get to include wonderful extras about the heritage of an area that I hope my readers will visit, like the rich history found in Dandridge, Tennessee, in EIGHT AT THE LAKE, a closer look at quiet Townsend on the quiet side of the Smokies in DOWN BY THE RIVER, colorful history about Gatlinburg and the Walker Sisters in my book DELIA’S PLACE, and interesting facts about Edisto, Charleston, Beaufort, and Port Royal in my Edisto and Lighthouse Sisters books set on the South Carolina coast.

Books are the way I go home with people, and as a past professor, books are the way I teach others about the beauty and history of places I love. My books, set in contemporary times, take readers to new places and into the lives of new characters each time, teaching about love, patriotism, good morals, kindness, faith, and more. I cherish Dolly Parton’s words about my books: “Well, I’ve finally come across someone that believes in all the things that I do … love, family, faith, intrigue, mystery, loyalty, romance, and a great love for our beloved Smoky Mountains. Dr. Lin Stepp, I salute you.” I believe, in these times, where we often see morals and patriotism compromised, that we each need to work to remind others of the good in our country, the rich legacy left to us by our ancestors, the beauty in our world, and the way to live in it with caring and kindness in our everyday lives. This is what I strive to teach in my books, in my novels, and in our regional guidebooks.

I celebrate the Stars and Stripes, the love of country, the beauty around us, the good and the honorable and true, still in our world, with every book I write. So much of what people write today does not encourage the type of strong character, strength of mind and heart, that helped to create our nation and that our forefathers fought and died for.  My own relatives trekked down through the wilderness to settle this east Tennessee area. I have a rich legacy of patriots, teachers, preachers, and statesmen in my background. I hope I give them honor in all I do.

It should not be a surprise that we are hoping to start yet another guidebook this coming year, which will be titled TRAVELING GEORGIA STATE PARKS. J.L. and I have already been gathering materials, maps, and books to help with the planning of the many trips we’ll need to make in order to take readers visiting to the 63 state parks in the state of Georgia. I’m sure we’ll see the Stars and Stripes waving in these parks, too, and that we’ll once again enjoy celebrating our country, its history and beauty, through the arts.

Wherever you live … get out this summer and enjoy your beautiful state parks!!

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

MAY 2024 – Be All You Can Be

This month for my May Blog, I wanted to share the essay I submitted this winter for the National Society Daughters of the American Revolution  annual DAR Women’s Issues contest. We were to write our essay in one of four categories: Career, Family, Mental Health, or Physical Health. I submitted my essay in the Careers category and I  recently learned that my entry won 1st Place in Tennessee and 3rd Place in the Southeastern Divisional level. This lovely certificate, below, was given to our chapter regent this month at the State Conference in Nashville. I was unable to attend, since I was traveling in South Carolina on Book Tour, but I am pleased for the first place award for our chapter and for the third place recognition at the divisional level for the Tennessee State Society as well.

I give the main credit for this nice honor to our Chapter Regent Brenda Wyatt who kept pushing me to take time to enter. I started to write the words “badgered me to enter” in humor. I was so busy with work at that time, in edits for one book and working on writing another, that it seemed hard to imagine I could find the time for anything else. But I stopped to plan and write the essay, with Brenda’s urging, on a careers subject dear to me – that it is never too late to follow the dreams in your heart. I titled it: “BE ALL YOU CAN BE, NO MATTER YOUR AGE.”

If you’re unfamiliar with the DAR, it is a lineage-based service organization for women who can prove descent from a patriot of the American Revolution. More than one million women have joined the DAR since it was formed over 125 years ago and today there are about 185,000 members nationwide in 3,000 chapters in all fifty states of the U.S. – most chapters named for patriots.

I belong to a Knoxville, TN, Chapter called Andrew Bogle DAR and I have been in the DAR since college years before marriage. I have carried a lot of offices and roles over the years with DAR and I am currently our chapter’s Chaplain. Ours is a large, friendly, active group, and If you are interested in DAR and would like to learn more about joining our Andrew Bogle Chapter, please feel free to contact our Chapter Regent, Brenda Wyatt, at her email at: wyattb6673@gmail.com

As an additional treat this month, I also received a Recognition Certificate of Award for “FIFTY YEARS OF SERVICE TO DAR.”  Below is the brief DAR essay that I hope you will enjoy reading … and I also hope, like the title, that it will encourage you to be all you can be and to follow your dreams, no matter your age!

Essay Title: Be All You Can Be, No Matter Your Age

By Dr. Lin Stepp

One of my favorite quotes, posted near my computer is: “It’s never too late to be what you might have been.” I first read these words, in a book by Shad Helmstetter, when trying to rally the courage to step out and pursue a new career goal at what many would term “mid-life” or “over-the-hill.”

Despite all the progress women have gained, in attaining equal rights to reach for higher achievement at any age, women are still marginalized and limited in reaching for their dreams by many factors—the culture, the expectations of others, gender and ageism stereotypes, and a deep, innate desire to please others that often holds women back from boldly pursuing their goals. Women, in particular, seem to want someone to give them permission to step out courageously to strive for new goals, and yet it is rare that the encouragement they yearn for will come.

This is particularly true for woman at middle age or older, who are even more settled in their lives, and more fearful, of all that might be involved in pursuing a big life change. They say, all too often: “I’m too old “… “It’s too late … and “What will people think?” For many women, often with home responsibilities, another ongoing job or career, and a wealth of social activities and involvements in club and civic organizations, they often sluff off the very idea of pursuing any new dream, goal, or career, seeing themselves as simply too busy.

I speak for many groups and organizations, and I have encouraged the women and men in them, and the many college students I have taught as a professor, that it is never too late for them to pursue the dreams of their heart, no matter their age, the environment they grew up in, or if anyone is encouraging them or cheering them on. Ultimately, the courage to pursue any dream must come from within, and particularly in middle and older age, each of us will either step forward into growth every day or step back into safety and the comfortable, familiar habits and life patterns we are used to.

I met all these obstacles and challenges at mid-life when I started back to college to get my doctorate degree. My children were still at home in middle and high school. In the early 1990s then, our family had been through some difficult financial hardships, too, with a business shutting down my husband worked in. I was working in educational sales, traveling a lot, and the timing to “feel led” to go back to college, even on the side, seemed impractical to most.

Additionally, taking any debt to attend school, with my own children’s college years not far ahead, wasn’t an option, so I picked up a second job to pay for my college expenses. On a somewhat humorous note, the doctoral program I was entering, in Educational Leadership at the University of Tennessee (UT), would have been an impossibility for me at all as a young girl. Women were not allowed to even apply for that doctorate program then. When I started my studies, those old stigmas still circled among faculty in the college. One of the best encouragements I received in those years came from an unexpected source, from a UPS delivery man who said wisely: “Give it all you’ve got. It can never hurt to better yourself.”

Those years were challenging, attending college classes around home, work, and family responsibilities, but I thrived on the new learning I was gaining and found it rewarding and meaningful. I made the Dean’s List in my grades and was awarded the Ralph F. Quarles Scholarship in 1995 for leadership potential and academic performance. The funding helped me let my outside job go to focus more on my studies, and the next year I also attained an appointment as a Graduate Assistant at the College of Education, which I carried until I graduated. My graduation day was particularly sweet as I graduated with my doctorate, with honors, on the same day my son graduated with honors in his undergraduate program.

After graduation, I began teaching college courses at Tusculum College where I continued working and teaching for twenty years. I taught a wide variety of Psychology and Research courses in the college’s Adult Studies program, where I worked with young and older adults, most returning to school to get their education while working and raising families. It was a joy to learn, along with my students, and to encourage them in their lives as individuals. I still keep up with many of my old students and those years were filled with rich meaning.

In the early 2000s, with our children finally grown and gone from home, my husband J.L. and I began to hike in the Smoky Mountains. We’d bought a variety of hiking guidebooks, but found them geared more to hardy, Sierra-club types than to us. They often labeled hikes easy that we considered hard as middle-aged hikers, only hiking on the weekend. Many gave poor directions and didn’t describe the trails as accurately as we’d like either. I had been journaling many of our trail hikes and J.L. had been taking photos, so we decided to write our own hiking guide. We began working on it with joy and zeal around our full-time jobs.

I was teaching then and also working part-time as the Educational Coordinator for Huntington Learning Center, traveling to visit schools in four counties. Many of our friends, of similar ages, were retiring, but we were moving into new ventures. In truth, most people didn’t have any confidence that we could write a book or ever get it published. Their comments were polite and somewhat condescending. Frankly, it was the type of encouragement I was used to, and I had learned well from experience in past, as C. S. Lewis wrote, that: “You are never too old to set a new goal or dream a new dream.”

As an avid reader, while we traveled around to hike trails in the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee and North Carolina for our book, I began to yearn to read novels set there, too. I stopped into bookshops and stores on our travels, looking for the kind of book I wanted to read, but couldn’t find any.  Most were set in the past about early settlers, moonshine recipes, or mushrooms. I often asked: “Don’t you have any contemporary novels set in the mountains with a little romance, suspense, and a rich, good story?” One of the store managers one day said, “Ma’am I, wish I did. People ask for them all the time. You’d think with the Smoky Mountains the most visited park in America that someone would write some.”

I suppose that seeded the idea, and one day driving back from speaking at a school in Vonore, Tennessee, the idea for a series of novels—just like I wanted to read—rolled into my thoughts. Long years ago, as a young girl, my dream had been to write books, so I thought: “Why not now?” I went home and began plotting out a series of novels I called The Smoky Mountain series, contemporary romances, with a dash of suspense, and a touch of inspiration, each one set in a new location around the Smoky Mountains.

The next challenge was finding time to write these books around my two jobs, teaching at Tusculum and marketing for Huntington. Determined, I sat down and plotted out a schedule for my writing. For years I’d taught my students that most people live far below their potential, that nothing is too high to reach for and work for, so now I had to practice what I’d taught to reach for the new career dream that called to me. In 2007, when my daughter was home for a Christmas holiday, she said, “Mother, you need to find a publisher for these books. They’re wonderful; you need to share them with others besides us.” I had three written at that point and was working on a fourth.

I faced a new learning curve in figuring out how to seek publication for a book. However, in 2008 I signed contract with a big regional publisher in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, to publish my books. To say that everyone who knew me was stunned would be an understatement. Next, I faced the huge, daunting new task of marketing and traveling to sign and speak about my books, while continuing to write more books and also work. After the publication of five novels and our hiking guide, I had to pursue a new publisher, as well, due to changes with my current one. I was blessed to sign with Kensington Publishing for my next titles, one of New York’s huge, national publishers. My books had been selling well before, but now I began to experience the blessings of hitting the New York Times, USA Today, Publishers Weekly, and Amazon Bestseller lists, and my titles began to publish internationally as well as in the United States.

In quick update, I now have twenty-seven published book titles, with two more scheduled to release this year. I retired from my work with Huntington along the way and from teaching at Tusculum a little later. I am now a full-time career author. I keep up a huge writing and signing schedule, traveling to about fifty events a year and writing two novels a year. Additionally, my husband and I have continued to travel and create more guidebooks, after our hiking guide was such a success. We now have three published state parks guidebooks for Tennessee, South Carolina, and North Carolina, and hope to begin another soon. J.L. and I also published a jointly written 365-day devotional guide.

I thank God every day for enabling me to have enjoyed a whole new career in my middle years. It truly is never too late to be what you might have been in this life, if you will believe in yourself and your dreams and work hard to see them come to pass. One of my greatest joys now is in encouraging other men and women to pursue their dreams, and to overcome all the roadblocks and challenges along the way, to see their dreams become a reality, too.

…Look for my May Newsletter, too, at: https://linstepp.com/media-2/

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

APRIL 2024 – Smoky Mountain Wildflowers

Living near the Great Smoky Mountains, I look forward to the wildflowers blooming every year. When J.L. and I were working on our hiking guidebook, we were on the trails often through all seasons, always seeing new flowers along the way.  But April was always the prettiest month of the year for enjoying the wildflowers. It’s also in April when the wildflower pilgrimages and wildflower walks around the mountain areas are held. There are more than 1,500 kinds of flowering plants in the Smokies, more than in any other national park, so there are always many varieties and types of wildflowers to discover.

On our hikes and walks in the mountains, we have taken many photos of wildflowers, like the photo of us at the beginning of this post with several varieties of trillium, an early Smokies wildflower. However photographer fans and friends of ours, that we’ve met on the “writer’s road,” take far more spectacular and beautiful photos than we do, so I’ve spotlighted some of their work in this blog post. Raven Pat Smith’s photos above show a glorious white trillium, an early purple violet and wild bluebells.

Other early wildflowers in the mountains include white rue anemone, bloodroot, and pink spring beauty as in Pam Mullinix’s photos. Pam’s other shots are of flowering quince and dwarf blue larkspur.

Daffodils, brought to the Smoky Mountains by the settlers, are common in early spring, especially in areas like Cades Cove where many settlers once lived. Dogwood trees were also planted by early settlers and later spread, as did other non-native flowering trees and shrubs. We often discover daffodils, flowering shrubs, and non-native plants around the crumbling walls, foundations, and chimneys of old homesteads—the flowers living on long after the people and farms are gone. Marie Burchett Merritt’s photos on the right show dogwoods in bloom, yellow trillium, and wild dwarf iris—that I always love spotting on the trail.

.L. and I have many favorite “Wildflower Trails” we love to return to every April, knowing we will find a wide variety of wildflowers there. One of these is the Chestnut Top Trail near the Townsend Wye where forty species of wildflowers can be found on the first mile alone.

Another trail we love is the Porters Creek Trail in the Greenbrier area where we have seen trillium, blue and yellow violets, and trout lily like in Jim Bennett’s photo. Along the roadsides and in other park areas you will find purple ironweed and orange butterfly weed, also in Jim’s photos, which the bees and butterflies love. We were delighted to spot our first pink ladies slippers on a quiet side pathway off the Porters Creek Trail, too. Another treat in the spring further up the Porters Creek are the white fringed phacelia which spread across the ground like a delightful carpet along both sides of the trailside.

After you explore the mountains trails for many years, you learn where certain flowers can be found most readily … like flame azalea in late April and May on Gregory Bald, mountain laurel on the Smokemont Loop and Chestnut Top Trail in early summer, and later rosebay rhododendron on the Alum Cave and Finley Cane trails. Vibrant pink Catawba rhododendron, like in Kristina Plaas’s photo, grow in the higher elevations like on Andrews Bald or near the Chimney Tops Trailhead. Many wildflowers we simply run into along a trail … stopping to delight in our “finds.” Special wildflowers, always a treat to discover, are white dutchman’s britches, yellow lady’s slippers, and red Indian paintbrush, also in Kristina Plaas’s photo above.

We tried to mention in our hiking guide The Afternoon Hiker trails especially known for wildflowers but flowers in the mountains often show up in unexpected places, and there are flowers of different types to see from early spring into the late fall. But April is still the best time to see the most wildflower varieties in the mountains. If you ever come to the Smokies in April the show of wildflowers will delight you and give you lovely memories to carry home. But remember that anytime you explore the woods, parks, and fields near your own hometown in the warmer seasons that you will find wildflowers, too. This month, I hope you will head outdoors—and get out of your car and walk up a trail—to enjoy the beauty you will find at every turn.

MARCH 2024 – Shop on The Corner – A New Title

Life is full of adventure and surprises – if you will step out to enjoy them!

I have a new Mountain Home Book coming out March 16th titled SHOP ON THE CORNER. I enjoy writing all my books, set around the mountains and at the coast … but this book was especially fun for me to write. I got really attached to all the characters in the story and had so much fun creating their adventures. I also loved revisiting, on several trips, the Waynesville, North Carolina, area to work on this book, walking the downtown streets, stopping in all the charming stores, eating in the cute local restaurants. Each visit reminded me again how much I like this picturesque and engaging North Carolina town.

I first visited Waynesville to attend a book signing at a small bookstore downtown called Osondu Books. It had charming green awnings and was very appealing inside and out. It belonged to Margaret Osondu. We became friends at my visit and I returned every time I had a new book to do signings with Margaret. …Later, when Osondu closed I began to sign at a new store in Waynesville called Blue Ridge Books. I soon came to know the owners of that store well, too, Jo Gilley and Allison Lee… and now Blue Ridge is the store I go to for my Waynesville book signings. I will be there March 22nd to sign again from 2:00-4:00 pm … and the next day at the Cotton Tail Market at the Smoky Mountain Event Center for a lighthearted Easter show with a great cast of vendors from around the area. … It’s always a pleasure any time to go to Waynesville.

You’ll get to visit Waynesville, North Carolina, in this story, too. The book begins, at first, in another small town, Amory, Mississippi. One of my close cousins lived there when I was a girl and I made many summer visits to Amory, walking and biking the downtown streets with her. It was fun to revisit Amory in my mind, and the town was a perfect beginning point for my main character, Laura O’Dell, who owns and runs her father’s upholstery store called Shop On the Corner. Unfortunately, a highway is being widened beside Laura’s shop and her store and others are scheduled to be taken by imminent domain. Additionally, to bring more problems Laura’s way, her sister Georgina and boyfriend Chase came to visit at Christmas and have stayed on and on freeloading on her hospitality, contributing nothing to expenses, and continually borrowing money they never pay back. Nothing seems to be going right and Laura soon gets a little push to consider a move and a big life change.

As you may guess, that change takes her to Waynesville, North Carolina, to an empty shop for sale right on a corner near Waynesville’s main street. It’s a big move for Laura, who has never been to Waynesville before, but she soon finds the change to be a good one. This is due in part to meeting Mitchell Quinlan who owns Quinlan Staffing Services across the street from Laura’s shop. There is definitely a little sizzle of attraction when they first meet. However, both have a host of life problems and responsibilities going on … and they soon get drawn into other problems and issues around the town of Waynesville … as you will, too!

A special pleasure in working on this book was creating two very unique businesses, Laura’s upholstery shop and Mitchell’s family staffing business. I did a lot of research for both businesses to make them as accurate as possible. Years ago, I actually did a short-term temp job in a staffing services office here in Knoxville, TN, and in a past sales job, I often visited with a favorite sales client, Bob Cable, at his upholstery store, Ledford’s Upholstery, in downtown Elizabethton, TN. I so enjoy creating businesses like these. One of the pleasures of being an author to me is “trying” out a host of occupations and careers through my book characters!

You’ll see the pictures here of how I imagined that my four main story characters might look…. Laura O’Dell and her sister Georgina, Mitchell Quinlan and his mother Evelyn, an area artist and art instructor. Each of these individuals had distinct personalities and you’ll come to know each well in the book, along with a wide host of enjoyable side characters I truly loved spending time with in my mind. These include friends and work associates, Mitchell’s niece and nephew, Mackenzie and Charlie, and Mitchell’s other relatives—especially his grandmothers, Nannie V and Mimi—and all the wonderful Barlow family. You’re in for a treat with this rich southern story, along with the extra addition of a running local mystery to follow.

Those of you who read my books know that I set all my stories in “real” places and try to use as many real streets, shops, restaurants, and tourist sites around the area as I can so readers will feel like they have actually visited in the settings of my books. Besides getting to know Waynesville … you’ll also enjoy sitting on Main Street with my main characters to watch the annual Folkmoot International Festival Parade wind its colorful way down the street. I’ve been in Waynesville to enjoy this parade in July … and it is stunning to see.

A short distance from Waynesville, too, is the beautiful Lake Junaluska Conference and Retreat Center, a lovely place set around a picturesque lake with a walking trail all around it. You’ll get to take a nice walk on that trail with Mitchell, Laura, the kids, and the family dog Zoey at one point. I’ve stayed at Junaluska in past and also signed books at the retreat center’s bookstore. Junaluska is especially beautiful when the 200 roses bloom on the lakeside Rose Walk.

Waynesville is also near many well-known tourist attractions. One is the Biltmore House, Gardens, and Estate. Biltmore is the historic home and property built by George Vanderbilt, still owned by his descendants and covering over 8,000 acres. It is a major tourist attraction and draws over a million visitors a year to tour the historic home and the beautifully landscaped grounds and gardens. At one point in the book, you’ll get to visit Biltmore with Mitchell and Laura … and learn more about it.

Additionally, you’ll get to take a hike in the Cataloochee area of the Smoky Mountains with Mitchell and Laura. … A fan once told me that one of her favorite things about my books was that I always put a hike in every book. I went back to check and it’s basically true. I like to show readers what a pleasure a “walk” or hike in the mountains can be. In this book you’ll get to hike and learn more about the Little Cataloochee Trail and the Cataloochee Valley, once the home of many settlers. Cataloochee is as beautiful as Cades Cove—but less crowded.

Through books, readers get the joy of living many lives and visiting a multitude of new places. I hope you’ll enjoy meeting the rich array of characters I’ve created for SHOP ON THE CORNER and that you’ll love visiting this colorful small town. As the back of the book reads: “Sometimes life’s unexpected hardships force you to consider drastic changes you’d never have dreamed of but lead in time to some sweet and unexpected joys.”

To read about my other new book LIGHT IN THE DARK, also publishing in March, read on below to find my February blog about it …And click “FOLLOW” to always get a little email reminder when a new blog goes up each month. … See my March newsletter, too, with our Book Tour Agenda for the coming months at: https://linstepp.com/media-2/.

Happy Spring. I hope your year will be a blessed one.

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

 

FEBRUARY 2024 – Light in the Dark – A New Book

On March 16th I have a new book coming out in the Lighthouse Sisters series. This third title in the series is called LIGHT IN THE DARK. It follows Celeste’s story, who grew up at her family’s inn by the Deveaux Lighthouse on the South Carolina coast. As the back of the book reads in brief:  “In this third novel in the beloved Lighthouse Sisters series, Celeste Deveaux struggles to find her way back to joy, love, and meaning after a painful relationship almost shatters her life.” I hope you’ll enjoy Celeste’s journey in this new novel with a little romance, a touch of suspense, and rich scenes on the coast at Edisto and in downtown Charleston.

For me, most all of my book story ideas come from thoughts or mental pictures that slip into my mind while visiting the places I write about.  My home and heart live here in the mountains of Tennessee, but our favorite vacation spot is Edisto Beach, that we first visited when our children were small in the 1980s. Edisto is a quieter and less commercially developed place than busier beaches like Myrtle Beach or Hilton Head nearby. We loved this aspect of the island, enjoying the easy beach access, the peace and calm of this laid-back coastal community.

One summer at the end of the 1990s, when J.L. and I were vacationing at Edisto, we visited Hunting Island State Park and the big lighthouse there. The idea began to play around in my mind, wondering what it might have been like for four sisters to grow up on a windswept island beside a lighthouse. I soon began to envision these sisters, each different and distinct, raised in the family’s big bed-and-breakfast for tourists that had once been the lighthouse keeper’s home. Ideas began to drift in more and more and I was soon excited about this new book idea.

Once I get an overall concept and loose plan for a book, I begin to visualize the main characters for the books. For this four-book series, each book focuses on one of the four sisters. The first book LIGHT THE WAY introduced fictitious Watch Island on Edisto’s north end, plus the Deveaux Inn, Lighthouse, and the Deveaux family. The head of the family, Lloyd Deveaux has died unexpectedly, bringing sorrow and more work load to his wife Etta and to her daughter Burke. The oldest sister, Burke, has always loved the life at the island and never left as her sisters have. LIGHT THE WAY Is Burke’s story … and it becomes Waylon Jenkins’ story, too, when he retires from the Navy to come back to his family home on Edisto. Waylon and Burke grew up together, and it is sweet how they reconnect in this story. Lila, the youngest sister, has recently returned home, too, and before the book ends, the other two sisters also return, each running from personal problems. Gwen returns home with her three children, hurt over a betrayal with her husband. Not long after that, Burke and Gwen go to Nashville to bring home Celeste, and it is Celeste’s story you will read in LIGHT IN THE DARK.

Even though I have always visited the places where I set my books, I return to those settings again to explore as I begin to work on a new book set there. I pick up brochures, take photos, talk to people, learn historic facts, and gather story ideas. As I am researching and creating the settings for a book, I also develop and flesh out all the secondary and side characters. The sisters’ parents, Lloyd and Etta Deveaux, had to come to life, as did a diversity of neighbors and friends.  Additionally, I spent months developing the Deveaux Inn, lighthouse, gift shop, and the entire 500-acre lighthouse station.  I had to find out how a lighthouse works and to design the interior and operations of the inn and lighthouse. I also spent time learning about and creating the cottages, outbuildings, harbors, marina, and creeks around the island, and developing the employees who would help the Deveaux family run the inn.  I studied extensively, too, to gain more knowledge about the South Carolina coast, the tides, ocean, climate, about the island, the lighthouse’s history, Edisto’s marshes, creeks, birds and animals, seashells, and a million other small things that might play into the stories.

To make each story more unique, I varied the setting focus of each book. LIGHT THE WAY focuses its story and setting on the lighthouse island at Edisto. LIGHTEN MY HEART branches out to take readers to scenes around Beaufort and Port Royal. This third book, LIGHT IN THE DARK, centers much of its story in downtown Charleston. I researched and learned about the city’s history, studied maps and articles, and my husband J.L. and I explored all over the downtown streets where scenes in the book would take place. We discovered so many spots we’d never visited before on these explorations, finding quiet gardens tucked away between gracious historic buildings, sleepy cemeteries, little museums, and cute restaurants and shops. I spent extensive time around King Street where many scenes in my story take place, bringing me wonderful ideas to help enrich Celeste’s story.

Our graphics artist daughter, Katherine, worked with me to create the linked, and glorious, book covers for these new books. For series books, I partially plan all the books before writing even the first. Yet each story evolves more richly, and in much more detail, as the story is written later. I think you’ll truly enjoy Celeste’s story, as she works her way past a harsh time of life into many new beginnings and into new happiness after a dark time. LIGHT IN THE DARK is a perfect title for her story.

As an author, I always create an “Inspiration Collage Board” for my books … and here you can see my board for the Lighthouse Sisters books. The four books have a rich array of characters you will meet along the way.  All their lives have problems and challenges… and they often little mysteries to unravel.  In LIGHT THE WAY, a series of murders are going on around the coastal area that Burke and Waylon get swept into. In LIGHTEN MY HEART Alex’s family’s restaurant gets troubled, as do other Beaufort businesses, by a counterfeiter. And in LIGHT THE WAY, Celeste and Reid work their way through their own set of problems you will soon read about and get caught up in.

I hope you’ll curl up in a comfy chair in your house, or out on the porch in a favorite rocker, and settle in to enjoy this new Lighthouse Sisters book.

Looking ahead, I’ve recently finished the fourth and last book in this series, Lila’s story, THE LIGHT CONTINUES, which has already begun the various editing and production stages a book goes through for about a year before it finds its way into reader hands. You’ll be hearing more about this title next year … and I am sure there will be more coastal books to come for you to enjoy—along with more titles set around the mountains. … Next month in my blog, I’ll talk to you about my upcoming Mountain Home book, publishing in mid-March, too, called SHOP ON THE CORNER and set in the charm of Waynesville, North Carolina.

See you then … Happy Valentine’s Day … and don’t forget to read my February Newsletter, too  ….All best, … Lin

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.