FEBRUARY 2025 – New Lighthouse Sisters Book

The Light Continues CoverMy new book THE LIGHT CONTINUES, the fourth book in the Lighthouse Sisters series, publishes on April 1st, 2025. It is already up for pre-order in print and before the end of February will be up in eBook also. You can read about this book and each book in this series on my website under “Books” at The Lighthouse Sisters Series. In this blog post I thought I’d tell you a little about how this four-book series came to be, and a little about each book, in case you haven’t started reading this new South Carolina coastal series yet. You have time now to read all three of the first titles before the new, final book THE LIGHT CONTINUES publishes in April.

Winter is a marvelous time to think of the beach, when the weather in my home state of Tennessee grows cold, gray, dreary, and snowy.  Some years ago, after a visit to our favorite beach at Edisto Island, South Carolina, I had the idea to create a trilogy of books set at Edisto. Since by that point I had written multitudes of books set around the Smoky Mountains near where I live and had built a big fan base of readers who loved them, it was a shift in my writing focus to consider writing a book set at the beach and to consider writing books in a series when my books previously had all been stand-alone novels, each book set in a different place around the mountains with different characters and with a new, unconnected story each time.

I talked to my editor at Kensington at the time about the idea and she said, ‘Lin, your readers love your books. They’ll love going to the beach with you. Write your Edisto books.’ So in the cold of winter not long after,  I wrote the first book in the Edisto Trilogy titled CLAIRE AT EDISTO. Readers loved it, fell in love with Edisto, and the book even won the Best Book of the Year award in Fiction Romance that year in American Book Fest’s huge contest. The second two books, RETURN TO EDISTO, Mary Helen’s story, and EDISTO SONG, Suki’s story, followed in the next two years about Claire’s girls when they grew up, . After these books published, fans were eager for me to write more coastal books along with continuing to write mountain books.

After visiting a couple of lighthouses around the South Carolina coast while vacationing and later reading about the history of lighthouses, I began to wonder what it might have been like to grow up on a lighthouse island, which is  called a Light Station. Many of the large, old light-keeper’s homes built by coastal lighthouses have now been made into bed and breakfasts, welcoming guests and giving tours of the nearby lighthouse. As that idea started to grow in my mind, I began to envision four sisters growing up on a lighthouse island, the old inn and lighthouse in their family for several generations. This idea for a second series of stories I decided to call The Lighthouse Sisters and I was soon building the new books in my imagination and mind.

Now the research and planning began. To me series books are harder than stand-alone books because the story of each has to thread into the others and they all have to tie together in their plots and conflicts. The facts, people, places, and timelines must be consistent from one book to the next, and hints for books to come have to be subtly laid from book to book, leading to the final one in the series. I decided to set this series of books on the north end of Edisto Island. The Edisto Trilogy books had been set on the well-developed south end of the island at Edisto Beach, but the lighthouse books needed a more remote setting and the book needed an island separated from the mainland.

I soon discovered that an island piece of the Botany Bay area, usually labeled on maps as Botany Bay Island, had broken away from Edisto’s mainland after a hurricane in the fifties and was now in a conservatorship  and scantily populated.  I tracked down people linked to the island and soon had my okay to set a book there and to use the island fictitiously for a novel. To avoid confusion for the book series, I renamed the island Watch Island, a name it had been called earlier in its history, and I named the Lighthouse after the Deveaux Bank, a bird sanctuary island a mile out in the sea beyond it. Soon the Deveaux Inn and the Deveaux Lighthouse on the hill above it and the Deveaux family who lived there, running the inn and tours, and taking care of the lighthouse and island began to become “real” people to me.

Over time I developed my main characters and side characters, my setting, homes, businesses and the general plots for each book. As the characters and places came to life in my mind I found pictures to match how I saw my “book people” and “book places” and soon created a collage bulletin board to prop beside my computer desk… so I could see all the photos as I worked for inspiration. My primary characters were the four sisters and Ella Deveaux, their mother and owner of the Deveaux Inn and Light Station owner, who had lost her husband in the last year. As the story begins, the oldest daughter Burke is still living at home, helping her mother run their inn and business, and giving tours of the lighthouse as her father had done before. Her sister Lila had come home after their father’s death, and she was helping, too, especially in running the lighthouse gift shop. As the first book moves along, focusing on Burke’s life, who has, by necessity, taken on many of her father’s roles, you come to know the family, the island, and the coastal area around Edisto. As Easter nears in the story, another sister, Gwen, who had been living in Arkansas with her husband and children, shows up unexpectedly, her marriage in trouble. As the family continues not to hear from Celeste, the third sister, a well-known country singer, who lives in Nashville, Gwen and Burke head to Nashville, concerned. They find Celeste, only recently home from hospital, after being beaten and abused by her husband, so they load her up to bring her home for rest and recovery.

Here you’ll see scenes from LIGHT THE WAY, the first book in The Lighthouse Sisters Series and scenes from around the island that are a part of this story. If you have not read this first novel in the series, here is a brief synopsis: Life had grown hard for Burke Deveaux at the family inn and lighthouse since her father died. She missed his warmth and still expected to see him walking into a room, his big laugh booming. Burke and her mother were gradually adjusting to the change, and Lila had come home this winter to help, but the workload was heavy. With spring coming and tourism picking up in the South Carolina Lowcountry, Burke welcomed Hal Jenkins’ request for his son Waylon to work for them. Waylon, retiring early from the Navy, knew the island and the lighthouse, having grown up nearby. Burke also knew Waylon well since they’d grown up together. He’d always been older, and she wondered how he’d see her now.Waylon had been away from Edisto Island for over twelve years now, traveling around the world in the military, but he was glad to be home again. He hated learning Lloyd Deveaux was gone, the warm-hearted Lighthouse Keeper he’d followed around as a boy. But he liked the idea of coming to stay at the lodge at Watch Island to help the Deveaux family with the inn, lighthouse, and nearly five-hundred acres of land the Lighthouse Station occupied. He knew Burke had picked up many of her father’s old tasks and he looked forward to seeing her again. He had long kept feelings he held for her clamped down but one look at Burke brought them all surging back, giving him a new problem to handle, knowing he’d be working closely with Burke at the lighthouse.

I won’t tell more as my books are full of rich story, problems, joys, and conflicts that will make you feel you’re right there at the Deveaux Inn and Lighthouse with all the characters. Gwen’s story is told in the second book, LIGHTEN MY HEART, and you will really see Gwen’s pain over the betrayal in her life and suffer with her and the children as they try to find their way, leaving their home in Arkansas and all they know. Gwen is a teacher and as she makes the decision to stay in the area and to find a teaching job and make a new life, she decides, early in the story, to accept a job  at a school in Port Royal, a charming, historic community right below Beaufort. She finds a townhouse to rent near her new school, and then, with shock, runs into her husband, Alex Trescott, in Beaufort. Apparently, with the Arkansas restaurant where he worked closing, he’d come home to work again in his family’s restaurant, Trescott’s, in downtown Beaufort. It’s a memorable scene! I think readers will enjoy visiting in Beaufort and Port Royal where many scenes in this book are set … and struggling through Gwen and Alex’s problems of separation. Old characters from the first book thread through this story plus many new side characters and conflicts, making it an engaging and fun read, with the children’s stories mixed in.

The third book is Celeste’s story, LIGHT IN THE DARK, the third of the Deveaux sisters and a well-known country music singer. Her first husband died unexpectedly and she unwisely got involved with another singer, who she soon learns is riddled with emotional problems, giving him a true Jekyll and Hyde personality. She has to find her way to recovery after being beaten and hospitalized and then decide how to handle the situations in her life and move on with her career. You’ll enjoy Celeste’s story, touching into the big entertainment world. You’ll also love all the scenes in downtown Charleston that are a part of this book and the many warm and interesting characters you’ll meet on Celeste’s journey, like Reid Beckett, who remembers Celeste from earlier years. I had a wonderful time as a writer visiting all over Charleston while working on this book… and I liked that Gwen’s and Celeste’s stories take my readers to new places they can visit when in the South Carolina Lowcountry area.

The final book, THE LIGHT CONTINUES, that publishes April 1st, is Lila Deveaux’s story. It is set mostly on Watch Island, at the Light Station, but takes in a broader scope than just the lighthouse island alone, reaching out to give the reader a look at all of Edisto Island as a whole and of plantation life at one of the beautiful old antebellum homes I fictitiously created and named Indigo Plantation. The plantation now belongs to Edward Calhoun, who is forced to come home to try to deal with what he will do about being the new owner of the plantation after his father’s death. Readers soon learn the problems Edward faced at home earlier, and also watch him eager to renew his old friendship with Lila Deveaux. Lila, however, is reluctant to move forward in a relationship with Edward, seeing and knowing his problems and indecision, and dealing with the changes in her own life as well. She has only recently left a community of Episcopal sisters she’d entered after college, believing she wanted to spend her life serving God there. A solace for her has been her art, which she is developing and growing into a solid career, and her family and the inn. Wanting not to miss God again in her decisions, she is cautious about her relationship with Edward. How both find their way to a new life and understandings about past hurts and pains is a sweet part of this story. I think you will richly enjoy this last book about the Deveaux family and the beauty of the South Carolina Lowcountry.

In the photo here, you’ll see me reading one of the Lighthouse Sisters books on my last visit to the island on the screened porch in the lovely vacation house where my husband J.L. and I stayed. J.L. and I have visited Edisto almost every year since the 1980s, enjoying the quiet island, the beautiful beach, Edisto’s bike trails, quaint shops, restaurants, and places of interest, all which will come to life for you while reading these books. Just as we often took side trips to spend the day exploring and enjoying nearby Beaufort, Port Royal, Hunting Island, and Charleston, so will you.

I wish you happy reading and a lovely escape from the winter cold as you enjoy these books for the first time, or perhaps for a second time—and as you hopefully look forward to the final book in this Lighthouse Sister Series, THE LIGHT CONTINUES, soon to publish April 1st.

In March, I’ll tell you all about my new Mountain Home book, THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE, set in Townsend on the quiet side of the Smoky Mountains, also publishing in early April. Two books to look forward to! You can also see many book signing events already set for spring where you can come to see me and pick up my new books and any of my past books, too. Check my website under “Appearances.”

See you next month!!! … Lin

_____________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

 

 

JANUARY 2025 – More Good Things in 2025

It’s okay to want MORE for yourself for 2025—but the secret to happiness, joy, and fulfillment and the secret to daily contentment is to want MORE of the right things. This list posted reflects some of the things I’d like MORE of in 2025, and I think I’ll make “seeking” them a priority of my New Year’s Resolutions. We each have to purposefully seek the things we want more of in our lives but I hope you might enjoy sharing in my thoughts about my list and perhaps you will find you want to put some of these things on your New Year’s MORE list, too.

MORE SLEEP: Every good day in life starts with getting enough restful sleep. It affects the way you think, feel, work, and learn, your health, happiness, and how you get along with others. I’m a big believer in turning off the visuals, reading improving literature, quieting the mind, focusing on the positive and counting my blessings as I settle in to sleep because sweet, untroubled sleep is the key to a richer and more positive day…. “Sleep is the energy you need to be effective tomorrow” [Tom Roth]. … “Tired minds don’t plan well” [Walter Reisch].

MORE MUSIC: The right kind of music is a positive to life. Good music—going to the symphony, listening to the classics or other favorites, tapping my toes to bluegrass or oldies, or singing along with hymns—lifts my spirits. Keep in mind that music, like spoken words, is a powerful force that can positively or negatively impact your life. So choose wisely. When it’s good, “music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything” [Plato]. “Music is the divine way to tell beautiful poetic things to the heart” [Pablo Casals].

MORE TEA: I’d like to add More Tea into my year—tall glasses of iced tea with mint or fruity flavors and warm mugs of hot tea in the evening as I curl up to read. The English have always had it right about “a cup of tea” being the answer to most everything. “Tea is a gentle reminder to slow down and savor the moment” [anon].  “A cup of tea is a cup of peace” [Seri Sshitsu]. More tea this year would be nice.

MORE BOOKS: It should go without saying that I want to read More books and write More books in 2025. It is through books that my mind, heart and soul are enriched and satisfied. “What a blessing it is to love books” [Elizabeth von Arnim].….”Books are the plane and the train and the road. They are the destination and the journey. They are home” [Anna Quindlen].

MORE SUNSESTS: I want to take time to notice More sunsets and More beauty this year. You’ll notice I didn’t say sunrises. I well know I am not an early morning person, but I savor the beauty of the day, the start of evening, and the loveliness in the world. And I want to savor those things more. “Every sunset is uniquely beautiful and so are we” [anon]. “Never go too long without watching a sunset” [anon].

MORE CREATING:  I want to do more creating this year—and to try creating in new ways. “The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul” [Dieter F. Uchtdorf]. We all have so many more creative gifts than we utilize and I want to discover and use more of mine. “What keeps life fascinating is the constant creativity of the soul” [Deepak Chopra]. I want more of that in 2025.

MORE LONG WALKS: I definitely want to take more long walks and hikes this year. Time outdoors always lifts my heart and spirit, and I love being in the beauty of nature. As John Muir so wisely wrote: “In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks.” …“After a day’s walk, everything has twice its usual value” [G.M. Trevelyan]. I am enriched walking—and it’s the type of exercise I most love—and I want and need more of that.

MORE LAUGHTER: I definitely need to laugh more in 2025, a hard task in this world today. But I know there should be more fun and laughter in my daily life. Laughter is healing and healthy and as Madeleine L’Engle wrote: “A good laugh heals a a lot of hurts.” …“Laughing is good for you; it’s like jogging on the inside” [Kurt Vonnegut]. I have a deficit of laughing as a serious type. I know I need more laughter! Don’t we all?

MORE HUGS: I am big on “hugging” and want to continue to be a hugger. Sometimes “there is more power in a good, strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words” [Ann Hood]….”Hugs are a simple, yet meaningful way to show someone they matter, they are safe, they are accepted, and they are loved” [anon]. I believe that, and I like hugs!

MORE DREAMING: Research shows dreaming while awake is a form of creating and planning, so I definitely want more “Awake Dreaming!” Eleanor Roosevelt wrote: “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams” and John Maxwell wisely added, “Dreams don’t work unless you do.” So for myself, I want to Dream More and Do More. What good is a dead dream? We need to live our dreams. “Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world” [Harriet Tubman].

MORE ROAD TRIPS: Yes, I do want more Road Trips this year. We’ve visited a lot of new places working on all our parks guidebooks, and I’ve found so much joy in those travels. It’s true that “life is beautiful if you are on the road to somewhere” [Orhan Pamuk] and especially when you’re exploring on interesting backroads. “Road trips are the equivalent of human wings” {Victoria Erickson]. We may not be able to fly there, but we can drive there…. And road trips nearby are as fun and interesting as long trips to far-away places.

MORE FUN: Serious-minded people, of which I am one, have to work harder to make more fun in their lives. And I want to do more of that. It’s healthy. As Dr. Seuss said: “It’s fun to have fun.” We know well how to have fun as kids but when we become adults we forget how to really have fun and we neglect to find ways to do it more. I think maybe this should be the year to remember how much fun life can really be and to make more fun in our lives. “Never, ever, underestimate the importance of having fun” [Randy Pausch].

MORE LOVE: Good words to close. We all need to love more. The world needs it: we need it. We all carry the capacity to love, but we don’t all use it well. We feel it but don’t find ways to express it. “Love is more than a feeling—it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing” [Wm Arthur Ward]. Love makes us get out of the smallness of ourselves, and “Love is shown more in deeds than words” [Saint Ignatius]. I believe if we keep ourselves in the love of God, we love sweeter and better, too. I daily want to do more of that. “The most important thing in life is to live your life for something more important than your life” [William James].

Do MORE to be your best self this year whatever your goals … and don’t forget to have some joy along the way!… Happy 2025. … See you in February… Lin

_____________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

DECEMBER 2024 – Living On A Shoestring

Most of us have endured seasons and times in our lives when we were forced to “live on a shoestring,” an old expression that means to live prudently and economically—and usually more tightly than we want to. I’m sure you’ve gone through occasional unexpected and harsh seasons of life where you were driven to cut back drastically in your budget and spending and to live as frugally as possible. In today’s economic times, with rising costs and inflation challenging us at every turn, most of us are searching for ways to economize whether we want to or not.

Moving up in finances is always easier than moving back. We celebrate moving forward, making more money, advancing in our careers and lives, but we bemoan the times when we have reverses. But easy or hard, we have to keep moving on, to make the changes needed to accommodate hard times and to create new beginnings. John Wooden wrote: “If we fail to adapt, we fail to move forward.” What we don’t want to do is value ourselves only by our money and position like the wealthy who leaped from buildings, committing suicide, in the Stock Market crash of 1929. It’s sad to think that anyone would rather die than to face a decrease in their way of living. Better to follow the words of Joseph Kennedy: “When life gets tough, the tough get going.”

Obviously with any income cutback, you have to sit down and look realistically at your financial situation and figure out how you can cut expenses and sometimes, how you can make a little more money to offset the losses faced. Where to begin? I think you start by looking at the basics in your life and seeing which of those you can adapt. For most, the basics are housing, food, transportation, clothing, and critical bills like water, electricity, phone, and other monthly expenses that can’t be eliminated easily. We tend to think these basics are “set in stone” when there are ways we can reduce many of them. Often we can move to housing that is less expensive, we can sell a car with a big car payment for one with a smaller one.  Too many times we wrongly think our homes or cars or other possession define us when they do not. Marcus Aurelius wrote: “It is not our possessions or external circumstances that define us, but rather our inner strength and moral integrity.”  Frequently, if we will admit it,  too,“We buy things we don’t need with money we don’t have to impress people we don’t even like” [Chuck Palahniuk].  That attitude change is a part of the adjustment we need to make in economizing, to change our views about possessions and their meaning in our lives. We are too often possessed by our possessions. But we can change.

Studies show regularly buying too many clothes, shoes, bags and accessories is a widespread habit in America. People often don’t shop because they need anything but mostly for social and emotional reasons, and most people buy more than they can afford in clothing and other items. This is a quick area we can all change our spending habits in to economize. We can make do with clothing we have without buying more until totally necessary, and we can learn to thrift shop for needed clothing items, going to charity sales or thrift stores, and heading first to the half-price sales rack for clothing needs. Vivienne Westwood wrote: “Buy less, choose well, make it last.” When you need to buy clothing, buy good basics that don’t go readily out of fashion or out of style. Buy clothing items that easily mix-and-match which provide more versatility. Change out of your nicer clothes when you come home from work, school, or being out of the home and put on older clothes for around the house and yard. Keep in mind that children grow fast. Don’t spend excessively on their clothes or shoes, knowing they will soon outgrow them. You’ll often find great clothes, shoes, baby items, and children’s toys at garage and charity sales, too. Keep in mind that it is adults that are often “hung up” about brand names and clothing status, not little kids, unless you teach them those values. Teach them instead to “smart shop” finding quality clothing and brand names at thrift prices. Be especially watchful today of mindlessly shopping online and being lured to buy and charge unneeded items you’re tempted with.

A recent 2024 study found that 42% of Americans report they are not able to live within their means with much of their financial concerns due to “overspending.” What causes this? The desire to keep up with the Joneses, letting expenses unintentionally creep up, shopping by impulse and for escapism, refusing to readjust budget spending for inflation, and slipping too easily into debt with the overuse of credit cards. The latter is especially scary and every individual should sit down and realistically find a way to avoid any credit card debt and to get out of any existing card debt. Our rule at home is to seldom use credit cards at all and if we do to pay them off as the bill arrives. We recently misplaced a small credit bill from a local department store and the interest tacked on for it being late added as much as the original item price to what we had to pay. Credit card interest rates have grown astronomically, making incurring card debt a budget threat to anyone. As Benjamin Franklin once said: “He that goes a borrowing goes a sorrowing.” Getting out of debt and avoiding debt are two of the best ways to see that your budget woes do not increase.

After sitting down to realistically figure out ways to cut and save in basics … it’s time to look at all the little non-essentials that steal from our income. A Lending Tree 2023 study found that 77% of Americans say it’s essential for them to buy and have the latest technology products and gadgets, like phones, computers, smartwatches, televisions, gaming equipment, and tech accessories, and they won’t hesitate to go into debt to purchase these products, even when their current products are in good condition. This excessive purchasing habit trend affects all generational groups and income levels. Additionally, more than 28% of Americans surveyed said they’d prioritize these purchases over other needed financial obligations, even rent and bills. This area needs some moral and character analysis. As S.W. Straus said: “Thrift is not an affair of the pocket, but an affair of character.”

Other nonessentials that Americans overspend on include exercise equipment and gym memberships, entertainments like movies, shows, and expensive concerts, sports events and season tickets for sporting events, yard, garden, and home furnishings, tools, and other items. Additionally, Americans spend an excessive amount of their budget on restaurants, bars, and eating out. One recent study found that the average American eats our five to six times a week either in restaurants, or via ordering takeout or delivery. A MinnPost survey found Americans overall spend about $70 billion eating out every month. The reasons people give for this spending trend is mainly that they don’t feel like cooking, that eating out is more convenient or more social. It is also more expensive to the budget and eating out frequently can lead to increased weight and higher medical expenses due to the large food portions, the additional calories, sugar, and unhealthy fats in restaurant portions. One study noted the potential expense of eating out versus cooking at home costs the average American $300 more in finances every month.  A way to quickly save money and to benefit your health is to eat the majority of all meals at home. The average home meal costs $4.23 per person versus over $16 per meal out by the time drinks, tips, and taxes are added in. A Penn state research study found that people who dined out frequently tended to underestimate what they spend and to rationalize their reasons for eating out, causing this pricey habit to destroy their efforts to budget successfully. All too often these meals out get paid with credit cards, and in the third quarter of 2024, the average American household had about $8,871 in credit card debt.

Healthcare sits in the middle between being an essential expense and a nonessential expense. According to a study in the American Medical Association, the annual cost of wasteful spending in healthcare has ranged from $760 billion to $935 billion in recent years. This waste could be services and processes that are either harmful to or don’t provide real benefits, with excess costs that could be replaced with services or products with cheaper alternatives. We get caught up in this excessive spending, following unwisely along, incurring too many elective doctor visits and elective surgeries, and readily accepting too many prescription drugs when life changes might be a better alternative. Additionally, four in ten adults have medical debts and pay huge monthly costs for drugs. According to multiple studies Americans are also considered to be highly overmedicated. Consumer Reports called it “America’s Love Affair with Prescription Medication” and Forbes reported that America leads the world in high rates of unnecessary elective surgeries. Spine and orthopedic surgeries and joint replacements lead the list with studies suggesting 50% of these surgeries unnecessary. This is a troubling trend. But we participate in these problems, cooperating eagerly to schedule surgeries and fill yet more prescriptions. As Andrew Weil wrote: “Modern American medicine treats almost every health condition as if it were an emergency.” Be watchful about overspending in the medical arena.

Vacations and holidays are another area where people habitually overspend. According to a recent Deloitte study Americans are expected to spend about $1,638 on gifts, travel and entertainment this holiday season despite ongoing economic challenges, and most of this money will be in consumer debt to be paid off in the new year. For many that is over a week’s salary and the average American has not put away that money in savings in preparation. A LendingTree research report explained that an estimated one-third of American adults go into debt to pay for holiday expenses. Even sadder, a new survey from WalletHub found that 46% of American are still paying off the debt from last Christmas as this Christmas approaches and will probably soon add to that debt even more. An answer here is to bargain shop more carefully for Christmas gifts, to put away money for Christmas all year, or possibly to make gifts for many. Watch, too, lavish ticket costs to go to Christmas productions and instead attend the many fine Christmas shows and concerts free at local churches and area schools and facilities. The answer is not to quit giving but to find a way to plan holiday giving more wisely.

We all individually, and as a family, need a break and a vacation from our hectic work and everyday lives. Vacations are healthy for individuals and families, but they can add another economic strain to a tightening budget. A recent 2024 study noted that about 90% of Americans plan a vacation each year and the average cost of the one-week vacation they will take will cost between an average of $1,991 to over $5,728 … with the cost rising for families. Many will stay in motels or hotels, all of which have gone up in price to closer to $100 per night or more. Food will cost more adding about $58 per day per person and entertainments possibly $55 per day more. Gasoline prices have increased, too, for drivers and campers as have airfares. What’s the answer to avoid going into heavy debt? Research to find places to stay in villas or cabins where you can cook most of your meals in. Many less popular spots and state parks have rentals that will reduce the average vacation stay expenses. If possible travel off season and plan activities that don’t further stretch the budget. Most every vacation arena has nearby free attractions, parks, historic sites, hiking trails, lakes and beaches that are free to enjoy. Even in lean years when the children were small, we found economical places for a family vacation, like at a beach or lake or in the mountains, where we could enjoy time away together to make some good memories without incurring debt.

By our lifestyles for good or ill—by our own choices—we can create either blessings for our lives or more problems. In financial areas, we often create our own serious problems and can be our own worst enemies in creating a fiscally responsible life for ourselves and our families. Catherine Pulsifer wisely wrote: “Being frugal does not mean being cheap. It means being economical and avoiding waste” and Dave Ramsey, an expert on spending, would add, “Budget is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.” We can all budget and live with more wisdom and prudence in our spending, without sacrificing a good and happy life. Calvin Coolidge wrote: “There is no dignity quite so impressive, and no one independence quite so important, as living within your means.”

If you’re a person of faith, a good point to remember is that all your money really comes from and belongs to the Lord. He expects you to be a wise steward of what He has given you and allowed you to earn with your work and life. I believe, too, that a strong faith in God helps us in tempering our natural desires and realizing the things that are truly important. In truth, you either choose to take care of your life, your finances, and your body or you don’t. And even if you go through a dark financial time, God will help you through and out of it.  The Bible is full of good counsel to help with finances and there are many fine books to help you learn to manage your financial life better. Study to find a wise and prudent way to live your life. We each have so much power to change our world simply by being wise and careful in what we buy.

You may be “living on a shoestring” right now, living with very little money, with limited funds to the thinness of a shoelace, but you can work to improve your life and your resources. Never believe that life won’t and can’t turn around for the better. If you read of the lives of all great men and women, you’ll find most all went through some dark and grim times, many worse than any you have ever experienced. So never give up on a better tomorrow, keep hope and work hard to make your future better. “No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow” [Maya Angelou].  Do your part in turning your future into a better one. Sit down and think wisely and well of all the big and small changes you can make to improve your life and finances. “It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up” [Babe Ruth]. Yes, change is difficult and requires discipline but you can do it. You can make the changes you need to make to create a financially responsible life. A closing thought: “For things to change you need to change. For things to get better you need to get better. The good news is you can change, you can get better and you can start right where you are at and you can go as far as you want to go” [Jim Rohn].

_____________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

NOVEMBER 2024 – The History of Revival

Many people today say we need a revival in America. What is Revival? Do we understand what it means, know anything about the history of revival and of the changes a revival might bring to our lives, the lives of America’s churches, and to our nation? I thought I’d look at this term “revival” for my blog this month, do some research, and give some understandings about what a revival is and what we might expect to see in a revival.

By definition a Revival is an awakening in a church, community or nation; it is a supernatural work of God as the Spirit of God turns the hearts of a people back to Himself. Revival, throughout the ages, has been the one force that turns the tide of a declining, diminishing belief in God.  A revival is needed when holy things are discredited, when people begin to love darkness more than light, when the light of truth grows dim, and when there is a general departing from the worship of God. Are we in need of revival now?  Many would say “yes.”

A new survey found that although 74% of people in America believe in God, a much smaller majority, about 25%, are affiliated with a church or religious group. This is the highest level of non-religiosity in American history, alarming for America’s churches. Within the results of this study, percentages showed that for most surveyed their idea of faith lined up very little with the principles and tenets of the Word of God. As an old evangelist once said, “They’ve got something else figured out.” Why? Most studies point to Biblical illiteracy as the primary negative issue affecting believer’s faith. Without a solid grounding in God’s Word, believers become susceptible to spiritual error and indifference, to spiritual stagnation, and moral compromise. Scott Roberts wrote: “Most church goers don’t know who God is today, and the authority of God is relativized, marginalized, or selectively interpreted to suit personal preferences or cultural norms. This erosion of biblical authority undermines the foundation of the Christian faith…This diminished understanding of God’s sovereignty, holiness, and character has profound implications for the American church’s spirituality and mission…Ours is a world in desperate need of redemption and transformation.”

Perhaps people have tried to turn things around. Perhaps the churches have tried. But America’s faith is falling into a sad estate. In a Revival, God intervenes. “Revival is an invasion from heaven that brings a conscious awareness of God” [Stephen F. Oxford]. “Revival is when God gets so sick and tired of being misrepresented that He shows up Himself” [Leonard Ravenhill]. “Revival is a divine disruption. It is a time when God intervenes in our affairs and interrupts our activities. It is a time when God makes our comfort-zone Christianity feel uncomfortable. [Tom Palmer]. “When is revival needed? When carelessness and unconcern keep the people asleep…A revival does two things. First, it returns the Church from their backsliding and second, it causes the conversion of men and women; and it always includes the conviction of sin on the part of the Church. What a spell the devil seems to cast over the Church today!” [Billy Sunday].

Although we would love to believe we can initiate revival, and although we can and should pray and hunger for revival, it is God who brings revival, as He wills and when He wills. The Lord brings it in His love and mercy.  T. S. Randal wrote: “Revival is the King of Heaven visiting His people in all His regal splendor and glory.” “Revival is the sovereign act of God in which He pours forth His Holy Spirit upon His people in a special way, whereby Christians are quickened, backsliders are restored, churches are set on fire spiritually, sinners are remarkably converted, and society is reformed” [R. B. Jones]. Isn’t that what our hearts yearn for? For God to be real and vital to us again? “Revival is God’s invasion into the lives of one or more of His people in order to awaken them for kingdom ministry” [Malcolm McDow]. “A true revival means nothing less than a revolution, casting out the spirit of worldliness, making God’s love triumph in the heart” [Andrew Murray].

Churches often hold revivals, and we often think of a revival in those terms, as a meeting when a minister or evangelist visits in order to draw church members to a stronger place in the Lord and to lead the lost to salvation. But a true national revival is far more than this. True revival is “a sovereign, sudden, selected, sensational operation of the Spirit of God, descending in the midst of prayer, which produces purity and reaches the perishing” [Ken Connelly]. Most of us today have never experienced a true and mighty revival or experienced the mighty works of God [Judges 2:10].

Revivals are not new, even if we haven’t experienced them. We can read about revivals occurring throughout history, and Bible scholars tell us there are sixteen different revivals described in the Bible. In America two great revivals have impacted our nation. The First Great Awakening was a series of religious revivals that occurred in the American colonies in the 1730s and 1740s. Leaders prominent in this revival era were Jonathan Edwards, George Whitfield, and John Wesley. These men were fiery orators, anointed of God to turn and change the hearts of men and lead America in the direction of God’s desire. A characteristic of revivals is that the words spoken are strong ones, like these of George Whitfield: “People want to recommend themselves to God by their sincerity; they think, ‘If we do all we can, if we are but sincere, Jesus Christ will have mercy on us.’ But pray what is there in our sincerity to recommend us to God? … therefore, if you depend on your sincerity for your salvation, your sincerity will damn you.”  They often strongly judged the church of their day for their weak leadership: “Congregations are lifeless because dead men preach to them.” It’s no surprise that revival ministers were seldom popular with the church hierarchy.

The Second Great Awakening occurred from 1790 to 1840 and on into the 1900s. During this longer awakening period, meetings were held in small towns and large cities throughout the country and the ‘camp meeting’ initiated in that period. This Awakening produced a great increase in souls won to the Lord, revival in the churches and in the establishment of many new churches. It spread religion and a deep faith in God through revival meetings and reform movements throughout the eastern U.S. and into Ohio, Indiana, Kentucky and Tennessee. Its ministers and evangelists shook the foundations of a formal, complacent church in America with impassioned and anointed preaching. This Awakening was longer and stronger than the first, and the fingers of this revival were also seen in England, Wales, and Ireland.

Leaders in this Second Great Awakening included James McGready, Charles Finney, Dwight L. Moody, Edward Everett, Hudson Taylor, John Hyde, Billy Sunday, J. Frank Norris, Jack Hyles, and others. D. L. Moody’s words reflect the message of that time: A great many people place their faith in men, and they pin their faith to other people’s doctrines and creeds…They believe what the church believes, but they do not know what the church believes….All the churches in the world can’t save a soul.  It is not to have faith in this church or that church, this doctrine or that doctrine, this man or that man, but it is to have faith in the man Christ Jesus at the right hand of God.  That is the only faith that will ever save a soul.

The revival meetings during this time were not much like the church services we sit in today. Whether in the big city meeting rooms or the camp meeting outdoor settings where they were held, the Spirit dropped down in power and might touching people in dramatic ways. The conviction of God fell on many, washing over them, filling them, dropping them to their knees, causing many to fall out on the floor under the power of the anointing of God. People were brought under conviction for their sins, their indifference to God, and responded, often with weeping and shaking, to God’s call on their hearts. Many people heard about the power and working of God in the meetings and were skeptical, but when they went to the revival meetings they saw and felt the outpouring of the Holy Spirit’s power. Sometimes over 10,000 people were converted.

Charles Finney himself tells of going to one of these meetings, skeptical as a well-educated man and a believer, determined to stay strong and not yield to any of the “nervous excitability” he’d heard about and the fervent emotionalism. But as soon as he entered the meeting he was hit by the supernatural power that he purposed to resist. He even ran away from the spirit of God trying to impact him, but even on the route home was overcome by conviction and the emotions of his heart. He said God impacted him in such a way “people thought him deranged” and yet that converted Charles Finney went on to become a great evangelist and minister. He led revivals, led multitudes to the Lord and taught ministers. His direct, informal, and personal style offended many formal preachers of the day who felt he destroyed the dignity of the pulpit and might not appeal to the more educated in their congregations. They were soon proved wrong. Finney wrote: “Revival is a renewed conviction of sin and repentance, followed by an intense desire to live in obedience to God. It is giving up one’s will to God in deep humility…. and if the presence of God is in the church, the church will draw the world in. If the presence of God is not in the church, the world will draw the church out.” Many said Finney changed American religion. Every minister and evangelist in the Great Awakening seemed to have a different style of ministry, as led by the Lord, but each brought God to the nation.

Billy Sunday was another impacted and changed by the revival meetings of the Second Great Awakening. He played baseball for the Chicago White Sox but at a big revival meeting in Chicago he got saved and left baseball to become a pastor and evangelist. God used him greatly to preach to over 100,000 people with a compelling simplicity and anointing that brought thousands to the Lord. Clergymen disliked his informal style and undoubtedly envied how God used him to bring change to so many. His sermons were filled with warmth, humor, and conviction. “The trouble with many men,” he preached, “is they have got just enough religion to make them miserable. If there is not joy in religion, you have got a leak in your religion.”…Billy Sunday often used baseball terms and actions on the stage: “The devil says I’m out, but the Lord says I’m safe.” He preached salvation in a direct way people could respond to and with the anointing on his words: “Conversion is a complete surrender to Jesus. It’s a willingness to do what He wants you to do.”

Living in Appalachia, I love the stories of the circuit rider evangelists who traveled on horseback during the Great Awakening to bring the gospel to those in the mountains and backwoods. Francis Asbury was one of those, traveling thousands of miles by horseback and carriage into the mountain frontier. He preached, held meetings, led multitudes to the Lord, and helped to start churches and schools. He rode an average of 6,000 miles each year. “True religion is the life and power of faith, and not a set of principles or a form of worship,” he wrote. He also said, “My soul is more at rest from the tempter when I am busily employed.”

Dramatic miracles, changed lives, and healings occurred regularly throughout the Second Great Awakening. Many of those things the church has decided have no place in our beliefs today showed up regularly in the revival meetings. A young woman crippled from childhood, was completely healed in one meeting, with healing and deliverance miracles reported often.  Even John Wesley’s own brother Charles experienced deliverance from a lung inflammation during a meeting. Animated singing, mighty moves of God’s spirit and power, weeping, and testimonies filled every service. James McGready wrote of one of his meetings: “The mighty power of God came amongst us like a shower from the everlasting hills –God’s people were quickened and comforted: yea, some of them were filled with joy unspeakable and full of glory…many fell to the ground, lay powerless, groaning, praying and crying for mercy …precious souls were brought to feel the pardoning love of Jesus.”

People didn’t even want to go home and stayed on and on, not wanting to leave the anointing at these sites. A presbyterian pastor wrote: “No person seemed to wish to go home—hunger and sleep seemed to affect nobody—eternal things were the best concern… Sober professors, who had been communicants for many years, now lay prostrate on the ground crying out.” What incredible stories. How long has it been since you’ve been in a service so anointed that you didn’t want to leave, forgot to look at your watch?

I loved reading the miracle stories from the Great Awakening. In the brush arbor revivals, people came from long distances, setting up tents and sheds, and brush arbors for preaching platforms. The people often stayed for a week or more, hearing preaching every day. At one Kentucky meeting like this, a huge storm was moving in. The people knew it would end the meeting and possibly tear down the arbors and stages erected, so they all began to pray fervently for the storm to pass them by. As the huge storm, with its wind, rain, lightning, and thunder grew near, it suddenly separated, moving over and around the revival area entirely and then passing on. I imagine a lot of rejoicing happened then! … In Wales, the spirit of God moved into a small town one night, shaking plates and dishes on the walls of homes and causing the people to run out into the streets in the dark in their nightclothes, dropping to the ground on their knees under conviction…. I read, too, that when the Spirit of God was moving strongly in New York, that when the big ships came into the harbor, the Spirit swept over the boat, causing those onboard ship to fall to their knees under the anointing and conviction of God.

This was a time when people had given up on miracles, when many no longer believed in God or the power of God, and yet God showed men and women in this time who He was. If He did this again in another mighty revival, would you be a scoffer or a believer? Would you be open and eager to embrace all that God might do, or distance yourself from any revival meetings, fearful that your beliefs might be challenged? The Bible says ‘If we are faithless, He remains true and faithful to His Word, for He cannot deny himself.” [II Timothy 2:13]

Some people are a little reluctant to come under the conviction and power of God. But in a revival, God does what He will, not what we decide. He shows us all the ways our God is too small, our faith too narrow and limited. Tim Keller wrote: “Revival isn’t something human beings do… real revival is the intensification of the ordinary operations of the Holy Spirit. When the Holy Spirit begins to do His work, He brings repentance and assurance … it wakes up sleepy Christians.”

Revivals bring good, needed change. They blow new life into Christians individually and into the church. Henry Blackaby wrote: “Revival is a divinely initiated work in which God’s people pray, repent of their sins, and return to holy, Spirit-filled, obedient, loving relationship with God.”

Some people say revivals don’t last, but they do have long-lasting results. There are many lasting results of true, God-anointed revivals. Thousands are brought to know the Lord in revival. Churches are changed and church leaders are renewed. There is a change in the moral fiber of a nation and in the communities where a revival flourishes. A heart for missions and change grows out of the roots of revivals. The Great Awakening led to many social movements, like the Haystack Movement, the American Bible Society, The Salvation Army, the YMCA, greater women’s rights, prison reform, the Temperance Movement, and many other mission movements.

Revivals bring a change to worship from the very formal, ritualistic pattern to a freer, more evangelical state, where God’s Spirit can move and work. Revivals beautify the church, recover the gospel, bring back the anointing and the sense of God’s presence in every service. “Revival is a divinely initiated work in which God’s people pray, repent of their sin, and return to a holy, Spirit-filled, obedient, loving relationship with God” [Henry Blackaby]… “Revival is a time of renewed spiritual health brought about by the touch of God” [Philip A. Jones]. And surely we all need that. Perhaps we should all pray, Lord, ‘revive us again’ like the old hymn. Revive us according to your ways and your loving kindness [Ps 119:37; 88] “An old-fashioned revival is the medicine for these times” [E. M. Bounds].

______________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

OCTOBER 2024 – Devastation in Appalachia

I live in the city of Knoxville, Tennessee, a short distance from the Smoky Mountains. In my part of the world, we experience the four seasons… a warm but pleasant summer, a pretty, colorful fall, a cold and sometimes snowy winter, and a lovely spring, rich with flowers and new growth. “Hurricane” is a word we’ve heard often enough here in Tennessee and my Appalachian area, but generally to our way of thinking it relates to the coastal areas of the United States. When those harsh tropical storms blow into the panhandle or up the east coast areas of the southeast United States, we watch the reports, remembering those we know and love who live in those areas that might be affected, praying for them, checking on them. Sometimes as the rains and winds from hurricanes and tropical storms blow inland, we get a lot more wind and rain than normal, occasionally flooding, Sometimes, trees are felled by wind or too much rain in the soil. But we rarely if ever see any really destructive weather damage.

In the past. Knoxville and East Tennessee has received a little wollop from Hurricanes like Hugo, Opal, Frances, and Ivan that packed enough wind to topple trees and power lines. Sometimes low-lying roads and trails in the valley here around Knoxville and in the Smokies get flooded and the roads closed, but Hurricane Helene sent our region a sweep of frightening damage and destruction most of us, even those of us who grew up here like me, have never seen before.

As Hurricane Helene moved closer to the gulf coast and the Panhandle last week, the reports began to predict that the cone, and the storm, would roll up through the southeast, bringing us a lot of rain and wind. It was Florida though and some of lower Georgia that were told to prepare, to batten down the hatches, to possibly evacuate in especially vulnerable areas. Most of us around the Appalachian area, so much further north, didn’t even race out to the store to get bread, milk, and some groceries, to get extra water, to fill the bathtub, to make preparations for possible power outs or problems as with the occasional winter snowstorms we get.

Hurricane Helene streaked into the coast, a large, fierce storm, but soon downgraded as it began to move inland, except that the storm was wide and filled with ongoing rain and wind, especially heavy, heavy rain. It had actually been raining somewhat heavily around many Appalachian areas of Tennessee, North Carolina, Georgia, and South Carolina a couple of days before Helene even moved in, which didn’t help things as Helene’s rains progressed our way and it rained and rained, and then rained and rained some more.  Swollen rivers began to overflow their banks. Flood reports began to come in from many areas. And the ongoing rains didn’t stop. In many areas felled trees and flooding began to create power outages, storm damage, and unexpected worries. Those unexpected problems escalated as Helene began to linger on and on over our area.

We began to hear reports that conditions were really bad in many areas, that roads were closed, farmlands and homes inundated with water, and even towns along the rivers flooding and the waters raging. People were stupefied. It was so unexpected, and much of it came more rapidly than anyone envisioned, too. Evacuations began as the turbulent floodwaters crept into businesses, people’s homes, and over more and more of the towns and lands around the Tennessee and North Carolina mountain areas, all so familiar to us. Festivals in the Smokies—like one where we were scheduled to sign books—cancelled, businesses shut their doors, roads were closing because they’d become impassable. People began to be warned of more imminent danger to come, too, from the ongoing rain, floodwaters, felled trees, and more.

Many of us, like J.L. and I were stunned and shocked, as footage began to show up on internet sites, Facebook, and the news channels of whole towns being flooded, roads being washed away, homes underwater to their roofs. We simply don’t see sights like these in our region and it was hard to look at the images and realize how close to our home they were. Farmers began to see their entire fields, barns and outbuildings being covered with water, often too swiftly and unexpectedly to get their equipment and animals out safely. What had been predicted to be a heavy storm quickly turned into a nightmare.

By Saturday, more and more unprecedented catastrophes were being recorded. Here in our part of Knoxville, we were blessedly safe, the rains dissipating some, everything soggy but with little damage reported near us. But almost every road in the Smoky Mountains closed and streams and rivers there had turned into a torrent, flooding over walls into the streets of Gatlinburg and Sevierville, flooding side roads and hiking trails, washing out sections of the Appalachian Trail. Signs were posted asking people not to come to the Smokies at all and soon we began to learn the flooding and problems there were larger than we knew.

Western North Carolina especially got pummeled with Hurricane Helene. Flooding seemed to be everywhere. Trees felled in many areas, and power outages increased. Large sections of towns along streams and rivers like Waynesville, Sylva, and Asheville were soon awash in flood waters.  Towns, large and small, like Hartford and Hot Springs between Tennessee and North Carolina, were soon flooded, streets torn away by the water, buildings collapsing and rolling downstream. In Erwin and Unicoi County, in the Tri-Cities area of East Tennessee, the Nolichucky River went crazy, breaching its banks and turning into a wild rampaging river, grabbing homes and barns in its teeth and swirling them downriver to crash them into bridges. Buildings were soon submerged in floodwaters. Fifty-four people were stranded on the Unicoi County Hospital roof and efforts to rescue them by boat and helicopter failed. They spent seven hours in fear on the roof watching the roaring flood waters all around before they could finally be rescued.

Area dams in these areas were pushed to capacity, with water cresting over the dams and flowing around the sides of the dams. A number of flash flood warnings were put out that dams were close to imminent failure and affected residents warned to evacuate like at the Nolichucky Dam. The Waterville Dam, just over the state line in North Carolina, sent out warnings, too, as did the Lake Lure Dam in Rutherford County, North Carolina. Other dams around the TN and NC area began to send water spilling through all their gates, because of the critical need to handle the water buildups, but this brought flooding to many areas along the rivers below.

The dams held, blessedly, but the waters rushing down the river and the streams continued to bring more and more damage and chaos. The small tourist town of Chimney Rock was completely destroyed by the flooding, the town a rubble of ruined buildings with roads torn apart, trees felled, and bridges destroyed. The pictures were heartbreaking to see. Water roared through the main roads of Maggie Valley and flooded nearby Waynesville, North Carolina.  The town of Asheville was soon flooding in many areas, too, like around Tunnel Road, and the historic Biltmore Village was soon almost submerged with flood waters from the Swannanoa River. The waters also flooded the town of Marshall and other nearby areas. The floodings spread down to Hendersonville and into South Carolina towns like Greenville and Spartanburg. People began to be trapped on rooftops and in upper stories of homes and buildings. Mud and rain filled the roads with power-outages everywhere. Deaths were being reported, not only in Florida where Hurricane Helene first hit, but in Georgia, South Carolina, into North Carolina, and Tennessee.

On Saturday, a huge section of Interstate 40 between Tennessee and North Carolina, heading toward Asheville, totally collapsed, closing the interstate. Soon  other major roads were closed, like I-26 not far from Johnson City, where whole sections washed out from flooding. Continuing road closures soon left Asheville virtually stranded with no safe way to come or go and with much of the city without power, cell service, or safe water. It was incredible to see this major city brought nearly to a standstill with rescue operations continuing all around the city and the nearby North Carolina area.

I saw videos of farmers weeping over their horses and animals lost, of their crops destroyed. Having just traveled all through Georgia, I saw, as one farmer said, the cotton and peanut crops ready to harvest, and remember the huge tracts of pecan groves, many now destroyed. Dairy farmers who use machines, now with power out, can’t milk the cows and they are suffering, and the farmers sorrows and losses will impact the availability and prices in our grocery stores to come. This makes me realize how much more a part of each other we are than we realize.

Life so often brings us surprises we don’t expect, too. We often think we have control over our lives and our world but then find we do not. Life, instead, is full of unexpected twists and turns. We have to all become resilient in this life, able to stand through those dark and unexpected times, to be strong enough to survive and overcome the unexpected. I am a person of great faith and believe strongly in the protection of God and in the power of prayer. But as Julius Caesar wrote, “No one is so brave that he is not disturbed by something unexpected.” And these unexpected tragedies in our Appalachian area of the world have certainly been that.

How do we handle the sorrows, the unexpected tragedies of life? How we do handle them tells a lot about who we are. Some suggest that it is when the going gets tough that our character is revealed.  William Samuel Johnson wrote: “He knows not his own strength who hath not met adversity.”  I also like this quote by Doe Zantamata: “It is only in our darkest hours that we may discover the true strength of the brilliant light within ourselves than can never, ever, be dimmed.” I hope that light in you is faith, and that in all situations of unexpected sorrow, tragedy, or calamity that you draw strength from the Lord and gain help from Him, knowing God is always ‘your refuge and strength,’ like Psalm 46 promises, ‘a very present help in trouble, and that though the earth be removed, the mountains be carried into the sea, and though the waters roar and are troubled and the mountains shake, He will be there.’

What is your response to the troubles of others? As you would want help in trouble, not just from God, but from the people around you, you should try to be a help, too. In  times when you learn of calamity, suffering, and unexpected and harsh events that shake people’s worlds, find a way to be there for them as you’d want them to be reach out to you. Love your neighbor as yourself.

Perhaps you have been grieved and shocked over the devastation from Hurricane Helene. Undoubtedly, you have watched the news in distress and seen the painful photos of the destruction. Concern is good and prayer is good, and we should all be praying and concerned for those in hurt and need, but we should also reach out and “give” tangibly. Research, pray, and seek for a route to give money and help in some way, through a reputable helping source you know of that will get help directly to those in need. Look for one that is already reaching out to take in supplies, aid, water, and food and be wary of scammers or organizations that keep the major portions of funds received within their organizational structure. Search, pray and ask God “What can I do?” If you know anyone personally that is suffering want or need or loss, then reach out directly to be a help. As Proverbs 3:27 advises, don’t ‘withhold help when it is in your hand to do good to those in need.’  Be a giver; find a way to freely give. In all areas of your life, not just in a calamity, look for ways to give back for all the blessings you enjoy. And “When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive—to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love” [Marcus Aurelius]. We have so much to be grateful for every day that we so often take for granted.

______________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

SEPTEMBER 2024 – Then and Now

Our parents and grandparents often make the comments “When I was a boy …” or “When I was a girl …” remembering earlier times and reminding us of how much things can change in our world in only fifty to sixty years or more. I used to smile at these remembrances of change and still do … but it’s actually remarkable to realize how much our culture and society has changed in so short a time. Only a hundred years ago in the United States, the average family was just beginning to drive Model T automobiles. Most families were only beginning to get telephones then, too, and television or computers hadn’t even been invented. Shopping in those times only involved a limited number of small groceries, a few department stores and family-owned shops.

I think it’s good, sometimes, to look back and think about how life has changed in our world. It helps us to be grateful for new inventions and positive changes, and it also helps us to see ways in which our world might have been better in past. So, my blog post for September offers a look back to help us see changes between “then-and-now” from the 1950s and 1960s to today. Many of you, or your parents or grandparents, may well recall the 50s and 60s, but it’s all too easy to forget those times, too, and how much life has changed since then.

The average home in the 50s-60s was different from those of today. Most suburban homes were smaller, with about two to three bedrooms, one bathroom, a living room, kitchen, dining area, a single car garage, and usually a large yard if not in the city. Some people had started to put air-conditioning units in their homes in the 1950s but in others window fans were the norm. Central heating was a little more common but many homes still had furnaces, fireplaces, or wood stoves. Home backyards often had a garden and people mowed their grass with a push-mower.

Appliances we know today were different, too. Most all homes had stoves and refrigerators—and many had a freezer for vegetables from the garden–but microwaves, electric can openers, icemakers, disposals, electric knives, and many other time-saving devices were not yet invented. Homes had washing machines but dryers didn’t become common until after the 1960s. People hung their laundry out to dry on clotheslines in the back yard. In the 1950s, and even into the 1960s, most women could—and did—sew, and often made many of the family’s clothes. Home sewing was actually a billion-dollar industry in the 1950s. People had smaller closets in their homes and fewer clothes then, too.

In every era people dress differently, and men, women, and children, dressed differently in the 50s-60s than today. Many women still didn’t wear pants out in public and wore dresses or skirts instead. In most schools, girls could not wear pants in school at all. On very cold days, they could wear pants under their skirts to school but then removed them and put them in their lockers. It wasn’t until the 1970s that trousers for women became fashionable and acceptable. Boys wore slacks with tuck in button front shirts to school. And when girls and boys got home from school, they changed into play clothes.

For special occasions and always for church, everyone dressed up, which is probably where we got the term “Sunday Best.” It was considered respectful to God to dress in your best for church services. Women wore hats to church in those years, and often gloves—especially at Easter. Skirts generally were no shorter than just above the knee. Men wore neat suits to work in sales and in the professions and they often wore hats. However, men’s hats were removed indoors, especially in church.

By the 1970s hats for men and women faded away in popularity except for baseball caps, which became somewhat of a staple for young men in less formal places and still are today. Bathing suits were more modest than today, and bikinis and shorter skirts for women didn’t kick in until the late 60s and 70s. About the only place you saw a picture of a bra or intimate underwear was in a Sears and Roebuck catalog. It wasn’t until the late 1980s that the first bra commercial aired on television, but with the model fully clothed and only holding up the undergarment. These days, walking by a Victoria’s Secret store reminds us that our society doesn’t mind showing men or women in intimate apparel or even unclothed on television or in movies.

In the 50s and 60s, most families had one car. Even in 1960, only 15% of families had two cars. Children rode the school bus or walked to school if it was nearby.  Many fathers, like mine, rode the city bus to work most days to leave the family car with their wives for errands if she didn’t also work, too. With the economy rising after World War II, and the dollar going further, many families could live on only one income then. Wives with small children were able to stay home and not work if desired, but by the late 1960s into the 1970s, dual-earner couples increased. Today, with our economy less strong, fewer mothers can stay home with their children in their younger years. Since the 1960s, too, more doors have opened to women in more fields, previously closed to them, and traditional concepts about the work roles appropriate for men and women have changed dramatically.

In the fifties and sixties, vacations were simpler for most families than today. Family togetherness was important after World War II and the country’s increasing prosperity allowed many families to take a summer vacation to a beach, resort, campground, or scenic site together or they traveled to visit family in another state to enjoy time with them. Wealthy people have always taken vacations since the earliest of times, but in the 50s-60s, working-class people began to enjoy a taste of travel and vacationing, too. In these years, children also began to enjoy summer opportunities to go to day camps, scout and church camps, and to participate in other away-from-home experiences like band and sports camps. Families also spent more times on weekends and holidays together at the lake, at public swimming pools, at the zoo or nearby parks. Children began to enjoy new pleasures they hadn’t known before, going to movies, bowling, skating, and  taking paid lessons in sports, dance, tennis, swimming, piano, baton, or guitar. Not all families could enjoy or afford these treats but more did than before in the 50s-60s, and families lived modestly to save for and enjoy these pleasures.

Children ran and played outdoors a great deal in the 1950s-1960s. Times were safer and children had more liberty in their neighborhoods, especially in rural and suburban ones. Kids rode their bikes or skateboards, played hopscotch,  croquet, badminton, roller-skated, and enjoyed baseball or softball in the backyards or fields. They giggled with hula hoops, drew hopscotch boards on the street or driveway, climbed trees, played pretend cowboy games and outdoor games like red rover and kick-the-can, spread old quilts under the shade trees and played with toys, dolls, and games. Board games became more popular, too, as did puzzles. Teenagers played records and listened to the radio,  went to school dances, and watched American Bandstand on television. However, even when the first TVs came into the homes in the 1950s and 1960s, families watched it in far more limited amounts than today. Kids played outdoors much more than today and used their imaginations to come up with all sorts of play activities and adventures.

Eating out was not the norm in the 1950s and 1960s as it is today. There were fewer restaurants, and for the average family, eating out was considered a luxury only for special occasions. Families ate at home together for most all their meals, and the family meal time was a traditional time for sharing and spending time together. Most families ate home-cooked meals at dinner with a meat, vegetables or salad, bread or rolls, and a dessert. People ate mainly fresh, non-processed foods, their vegetables and fruits often from the family garden, a nearby farmer’s market, or the local grocery near their home. Very little junk food was found in the home then like we know it now. People lived healthier, eating better and being more active in their homes and out-of-doors than the bulk of our society today. Only 10% of adults were classified as obese during the 1950s and fewer children. Now over 40% of adults and nearly 20% of children are obese, and far more are overweight. In this area, our world has not improved in its habits and lifestyle.

The moral culture was different in the 1950s and 1960s. This era was more conservative, less materialistic, more value-laden, and more caring. It was a time that linked right and wrong to Biblical values, although not all the cultural norms of the time were right. Some studies call the cultural time of the 50s-60s more “other-directed” than “Inner-directed.” Communities and families were tighter, more in touch. The era valued good morals, manners, a strong work ethic, patriotism, and faith more than our culture today, basing practices for government, school, and home around these values. That strong moral foundation and set of related values permeated all social institutions, from government to military, healthcare, church, and family. Today, studies show we have seen a significant decline in the value of virtues like honesty, kindness, and trustworthiness, plus a marked decline in respect for authority and parents, and less clear lines between good and bad, ethics and evil. These changes have also caused more societal conflict, unrest, anxiety, unhappiness and depression, and more violence.

We have also seen a drop in educational scores since the 1950s-1960s and more problems with discipline in American schools. All research has shown that a reading society is a strong society, yet the value of reading and the number of people engaging in reading has declined significantly since the 50s and 60s. Americans are reading fewer books than in past and our national literacy rates are declining. Technology has contributed in part to this decline. Children and adults consistently look at their phones and other devices and are easily distracted by the immediate response of technology. Additionally, parents don’t read at home and model a love for reading as much as in past, and children are following in the same pathways they see modeled. This and other administrative and governmental problems are eroding the strength and effectiveness of our educational system and creating an increasing percentage of children who cannot read at basic levels. These changes have not been positive ones since the 50s-60s.

Few people today can look around and not see that we have problems in our world. Of course, every culture and era has societal problems. Although we can all look back and see many progressive and positive changes in our world since the 50s and 60s, we can also look back and see many negative and detrimental changes in our society since that time, too. The question, of course, is whether we can rightly evaluate the areas where we’ve slipped away and turn around and make positive changes to correct the difficulties in our homes, families, educational and political systems, and in our own personal lives a well. Mark Twain once wrote: “We are chameleons, and our partialities and prejudices change places with an easy and blessed facility, and we are wonted to the change and happy in it” often to our detriment. People get settled in their ways, even in wrong ways, and they resist change.  President Woodrow Wilson wrote, “If you want to make enemies, try to change something.” However, despite the resistance people inherently have to change, we can change and create a better version of ourselves and our world. If we will. Perhaps looking back can help us see where we missed the better path in some area or where we need to take a new and different path to a better future.

Some quotes to close:

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” [ Margaret Mead}

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” [Mahatma Gandhi]

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.” [Harriet Tubman]

“The greatest danger to our future is apathy.” [Jane Goodall]

“Don’t underestimate the power of your vision to change the world. Whether that world is your office, your community an industry or a global movement, you need to have a core belief that what you contribute can fundamentally change the paradigm or way of thinking about problems.” [Leroy Hood]

“The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.” [Steve Jobs]

______________________________________________________________________________________

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.