JUNE 2025 – Exploring Book Genres

The term genre is pronounced john-ruh with the accent on the first syllable. The word genre, in a broad sense, means a category of artistic composition, as in music or literature, characterized by similarities in form, style, or subject matter. It comes from a French word meaning “kind” or “type.’ Book genres are broad categories that classify literature by content, themes, tone, technique, and style. The idea of genre classification is to place works that are similar into groupings with shared conventions. Most every book genre can be further divided into subgenres, creating a diverse range of reading categories and experiences. Some sources suggest there are up to fifty genres, while others argue for far less, noting the main four genres as poetry, fiction, nonfiction, and drama. Even the ALA, the American Library Association, doesn’t define a specific set of “main” genres for books.

When I think of book genres, the two primary types I learned in growing up are Fiction and Nonfiction. Fiction books are imaginative narratives with plot, characters, and settings created all or in part from the author’s imaginative mind, and are meant to entertain, explore themes, and evoke emotions. Nonfiction books are an account of facts, based on real lives or real events, and are meant to teach, provide insights, explain, or convey information. Non-fiction authors strive to be truthful and accurate in representing the facts as they occurred or in telling about the subjects or people they are writing about. Fiction authors can create any story they wish, based on their imagination, although, of course, they want it to be compelling and engaging.

In the “fiction genre,” are many primary and subgenre categories. For example in the Romance genre category are many subgenres including contemporary romance, historical romance, Regency romance, romantic suspense, romantic comedy, paranormal romance, and others. Under the Mystery genre are multiple subgenres, too, including classic or traditional mysteries, cozy mysteries, historical mysteries, courtroom mysteries, detective fiction, and psychological thrillers.

Many sources label general Women’s Fiction or even men’s fiction as a genre, for books not fitting in other specific categories but with predominately only women or men in mind in appeal. Literary fiction, another umbrella term, tends to imply more serious literary and classical-style books, exploring complex themes and social commentary, and more character driven than plot driven. Other fiction genres include drama, plays, tragedies or comedies, fantasy, like magical realism, paranormal, or dystopian, western books, action and adventure, thrillers, horror, and suspense books, and graphic novels that include a lot of narrative art. For the younger reader are multiple Fiction subgenres like young adult books, new adult books with coming-of-age stories, and children’s books of several styles and age-types including board books, picture books, easy or early readers, and chapter books. In addition, an entire area in most libraries is designated to Christian fiction book titles. Even shorter reads like novellas, short stories and poetry books can fall into the fictional genre area.

In the “nonfiction genre,” another very broad category, are personal life stories, biographies or memoirs, and stories about persons written by a third party, called autobiographies. There are many nonfiction books geared to life, interests, and hobbies, including  cook books, diet books, and other titles related to nutrition and health, decorating and home books, art and photography, travel, history, humor, or true crime accounts. In addition, there are how-to titles of all kinds from non-fiction books about child-rearing, parenting, family life, self-help books, humanities and social sciences titles, and science and technology books on nearly every subject. There are also non-fiction books for children, new age and spirituality titles, and a wide array of Christian non-fiction books.

I read a lot of non-fiction books. Most relate to my fields of study in psychology and research or to knowledge I need for my teaching or writing. Others are chosen for self-help, growth, and inspiration. I read to teach myself to carry a positive and productive attitude, to deal better with others, to be more effective in the world. I read spiritual books, too, to grow in my Christian faith, which I never want to let grow stagnant. I think it is more obvious how that type of book impacts us … but “fiction” books impact us, too.

You probably smiled as you saw a mention of particular genres or subgenres of Fiction book types you particularly enjoy reading, and you can probably name authors and book titles in some of those areas you enjoyed reading over the years. Fiction books can deeply influence and impact us and books can stay in our hearts and memories for many years, often throughout our entire lives. We remember specific characters, settings, or happenings in plot that made them special to us, and we often reread these favorites again along life’s way.

I thought I’d share a few of my favorites in different genre categories that I have especially enjoyed … and perhaps my thoughts will remind you of books you have loved along life’s way, too.

When I was a child, picture books weren’t as abundant and popular as they are now. After World War II in the 1950s and 1960s, the publication of children’s books began to rise with the after-the-war birth rate and advances in the publication industry. However, it took time for these new, lavishly illustrated books to move into the homes of families. Children growing up then were encouraged in education and read to more than in past, but books in the home tended to be more storybook collections with many stories tucked within one book, like The Better Homes and Gardens Storybook I still own. In it were books and stories like Peter Pan, The Little Red Hen, The Story of the Live Dolls, and The Tale of Peter Rabbit.

Little Golden Books, soon selling even in the grocery stores for only 25 cents, quickly became popular, and I remember early titles like The Three Little Kittens and The Poky Little Puppy. Especially popular were books with good moral lessons, along with nursery rhyme and song books, fairy tales, and poetry books. Even today I can still recite the words of many of those songs, poems, and rhymes I learned: “A was once an apple-pie, Pidy, Widy, Tidy, Pidy, Nice Insidy, Apple-pie” [from The Nonsense ABC by Edward Lear] and “How do you like to go up in a swing, Up in the air so blue? Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing, Ever a child can do!” [from The Swing by Robert Louis Stevenson].

Access to books grew as I entered school, where my teachers read to us often. My school friends and I swapped books, too, talking about them afterward, gifting them to each other at birthday parties. I was soon also taken to the library or rode my bike to the nearby branch library, where books could be checked out, enjoyed, and then returned for more. Favorites I still remember are The Secret Garden, Little Women, the Beverly Cleary books like Ramona the Brave, Margeurite Henry’s horse books like Misty of Chincoteague, and the wonderful Nancy Drew books, starting with The Secret in the Old Clock.

By my middle school and high school years I discovered romance books like those by Betty Cavanna and Janet Lambert and books with more mystery and suspense like those by Mary Stewart and Phyllis Whitney. I soon moved on to reading titles like Agatha Christie’s mysteries, L.M. Montgomery’s lovely Anne of Green Gables stories, and Madeleine L’Engle’s books like A Wrinkle in Time and Meet the Austins. Reading books expanded my knowledge of the world and taught me how other people lived and thought. They took me from my quiet middle class life to far-away places and into the lives of intriguing characters and grand adventures.

As a young woman I especially loved historical sagas, romances, and mysteries and those are still the genres I love most to read. I can remember certain books I especially liked: The Thorn Birds by Colleen McCullough, Gone with the Wind by Margaret Mitchell, Hawaii by James Michener, Cheaper by the Dozen by Frank B. Gilbreth, Christy by Catherine Marshall, Mrs. Mike by Benedict Freedman, The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand, and Spencer’s Mountain by Earl Hamner. These books pop up in my memory without prompts and I can still remember the stories in them and the characters.

I began to dream of writing while reading so much as a girl and young woman. I thought how wonderful it would be to write books like Eugenia Price’s novels set along the South Carolina coast with rich characters and beautiful settings or to create warm-hearted books like Jan Karon’s lovely Mitford books set in a small town in the mountains. I found and devoured Mazo de la Roche’s The Jalna books and Colette’s Claudine books, following the lives of their characters. Looking back, it’s hard to remember just why those books resonated so much with me, but I knew, even then, if I ever got to write books that I hoped they would be books like these.

As I look back over the books I remember loving so much I see how they influenced my writing today … and the books I continue to love best always feel like “friends” in the same way. … The moral is to read the books you love most but to know that what you do read will mold your thinking and your life. Take care what you read because it will shape what you become. Just as the Bible warns that the company we keep impacts us, so the company and type of books you read impacts you, too.

I write now because I love to write and I write to share the love of good, rich, wholesome and warm-hearted books with you … and I hope my stories will impact you only in good and positive ways.

A closing quote: “I write because I love writing. I think I became a writer in order to explore my ideas and responses to the world around me, which I often found it difficult to share with others. Also I liked my autonomy, and a writer can choose his or her own working hours – midnight to dawn or whenever. The difficulty of becoming a writer never bothered me. I knew it was going to work for me sooner or later. And if you’re a writer you don’t have to retire but can keep on doing the thing you love till you drop off the chair.” – Alex Miller

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Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

MAY 2025 – The Meaning of Flowers

May is a month rich with flowers. We love seeing them as we travel around the areas where we live, when we visit gardens, send or receive flowers, or simply walk outdoors, stopping to admire them. Flowers have also long held meaning… and in past, especially, people gave floral gifts to convey messages or meanings as well as simply to bring another person joy. The term “floriography”, meaning “The Language of Flowers” is the name for the system developed to convey messages and emotions about flowers. Especially in the Victorian era, flowers served as a way to express feelings. Most of us are familiar with birth flowers for every month of the year or we might have read legends about the names and meanings of certain flowers. A lot of Shakespeare’s work involved flower symbolism. However, for most of us, we know little about the meaning of the flowers we send, receive, or enjoy.

While cleaning out book shelves, I discovered a little book called Kate Greenaway’s LANGUAGE OF FLOWERS. This small book, that used to be my mother’s, further inspired the idea for this blog. The book was an old one, published before copyright dates, and I loved leafing through the sweet illustrations created by English Victorian artist and writer Kate Greenaway (1846-1901). She gave the meanings of many flowers in the book, plus messages that flowers once conveyed, and I further researched to learn more. Below is a sampling of what I learned about some popular flowers you may be familiar with. The flowers I’ve chosen to use have mostly sweet meanings and messages … but many flowers can send a different message altogether, probably sent anonymously. Some plants and flowers could be sent to convey messages like: “I shall not survive you,” “Love is dangerous,” or “Justice shall be done to you.” Others could mean “You are cold,” “Your looks freeze me,” or “My love is hopeless.” Flowers often held both sweet positive meanings and negative, somewhat warning meanings. If you were the receiver of a bouquet of red and yellow chrysanthemums with no recipient name attached it could mean “I love you “ for the red” or “Slighted love” for the yellow!

Two common flowers we love to give and receive for gifts are roses and daffodils.

ROSES are most commonly associated with true love, devotion, and passion, especially red roses. They are the quintessential flower of romance. Their message is: “I Love You.” Twelve red roses were said to represent the “Perfect Expression of Love” which is probably why that number is often given. Roses of other colors have different meanings. For example, Yellow Roses are given for friendship and caring, Pink for gratitude or admiration, Orange for fascination, Purple for sincerity and even infatuation. It is doubtful the person you give roses to will know all the different meanings of the color of a rose you select… but they will always see clearly your caring for them. … DAFFODILS, blooming out in the early spring speak of rebirth and new beginnings. They are often sent to represent hope in a time of adversity or to express respect or regard. They are a “happy” flower and meant to bring pleasure and represent joy. They are also the birth flower of March, making them appropriate for March birthday giving.

LILIES symbolize love, virtue, sweetness, purity, renewal and rebirth. There are over 100 different species of Lilies and they have various symbolic meanings. To Christians the white lily has always been associated with Easter and the birth of Jesus. You might give an orange lily to show respect and honor to someone you care for, while the red lily, a more passionate and vibrant color, speaks of passion and romance. Purple lilies can show pride in someone’s accomplishment while a pink lily is perfect to show admiration for a special occasion …. TULIPS stand for elegance and perfect love, and… a red tulip is a declaration of love. Yellow tulips are more fun in message and can tell someone they’ve brought joy and happiness to your life, just as white tulips can represent honor and respect over a lost loved one. Tulips are beloved all around the world and there are tulip festivals in many countries. Because they can represent the journey our loved ones take to the afterlife they are often found in cemeteries and in flower cremation urns.

 

ZINNIAS, a hardy, bright and showy flower, have many meanings. They can convey the message: “Thinking of You” and be a sign of friendship and affection. Most all zinnia colors have variations of these messages of remembrance and friendship. For example, yellow zinnias mean: “I’m thinking of you every day.” … HYACINTHS don’t always symbolize sweetness of thought, like other flowers. They can convey jealousy or regret, and even came to be associated with death and bad luck in Victorian times. But they also stand for constancy and sincerity and can send the message: “I am sorry, forgive me.” Blue or “grape hyacinths,” like the ones pictured above, convey sincerity, beauty, and heartfelt emotions.

 

DOGWOOD blooms, arriving near Easter, represent rebirth, purity, and promise. In the Victorian era they represented reliability and durability, strength or resilience. They could also convey a message of regret for a situation or a sign of affection to someone they think may not reciprocate it. If a bachelor sent a dogwood flower and it was returned, it confirmed his feelings were not reciprocated. If the lady kept it, it showed she was interested! … ANEMONES stand for love and anticipation of a growing relationship. They could often stand for protection again evil and ill wishes, linked back to old legends. Their links back to fairies also speak of fragility, innocence, sincerity, and protection. Anemones are a happy, bright charming flower in appearance … and often that happy message is meant when they are sent.

MORNING GLORIES, like many other flowers, represent affection, love, and gratitude. They caution to cherish and appreciate the present and to keep in mind the fleeting nature of life. The flower is also associated with happiness, peace, and good luck. Because they open at dawn, they are seen, too, as a representation of new beginnings and the start of a new chapter in life. … IRIS flowers, so loved by many for its elegant colors and shape, symbolizes faith, courage, valor, hope, and wisdom.  By color, purple iris reflect wisdom, strength, and courage – nice for someone who has completed an accomplishment. White irises symbolize innocence and purity and are perfect for baby gifts and wedding flowers. Pinks speak more of love and friendship, yellow of love, happiness, and joy, perfect for happy occasions. Each color has a different meaning and a black iris sends a message of mystery and even rebellion.

CARNATIONS symbolize devotion and love and make a lovely gift for Mother’s Day, anniversaries, or other special occasions. Men often wear carnations in their suit button holes for weddings and you will frequently see them in bridal bouquets. The various colors of carnations have different meanings, the white, pink, and red all good… but the yellow can stand for disappointment and rejection and the purple capriciousness. … DAISIES are happy, cheerful flowers, often with that meaning. In the Victorian Era, they symbolized loyalty and an ability to keep secrets. April’s birth month flower, the daisy symbolizes childhood, innocence, new beginnings, and joy. iIt’s hard not to smile when you see a bunch of daisies any time. A friendly flower, their message might read: “I think of you and share your sentiments.” Always a good choice to brighten a friend’s day.

PANSIES are a favorite of mine, full of happy childhood memories, and they are the birth flower of February. Pansies stand for pleasant thoughts, love, remembrance, free-thinking, and affection. The term Pansy comes from the French word “pensée” or thought. They are lovely to send to someone you think of as a thoughtful and affectionate person. They can stand for secret love, unrequited love, and even secret affairs. Pansies could say: “I have loving thoughts of you” or even “I am feeling amorous toward you!” … DAHLIAS stand for inner strength, commitment, and positive change. They come in many colors and over 50,000 varieties and are sought-after flowers in the summertime.  They symbolize good taste, elegance, creativity, positivity, and growth. They make a good gift for someone going through a difficult time or starting on a new career or chapter in their life. Dahlias were often give as symbols of devotion and affection and all the colors have positive meanings except for the blacks that symbolize sadness and betrayal.

SUNFLOWERS are big yellow, happy flowers you can’t help but notice. They stand for adoration, and pure and lofty thoughts. They symbolize a long life and lasting happiness, as well as good fortune and positive opportunities. Everyone loves the sunflower. Bright and cheery they brighten up a room and brighten the life of any who receive them. They turn toward the sun and the light, giving them a spiritual meaning, too. Send them to lift anyone’s spirits. … HYDRANGEA signify heartfelt emotion and gratitude. They are beautiful showy flowers but in past have often had a negative association, symbolizing arrogance, boastfulness, and vanity and sent to someone to say: “You are heartless.” It’s hard to imagine any flower so glorious could have such a negative meaning but the color chosen can soften the message. The blues and pinks generally convey more positive messages than the white or purple blooms, but meanings change from culture to culture. Luckily for all those who love to give and receive Hydrangea, few people even know their meanings at all!

CAMELLIAS with their delicate, sweet-smelling blossoms are rich in meaning and symbolism. To convey your undying love or to just let a friend know you care, camellias are a lovely choice to give or send. Camellias stand for admiration, perfection, love, and longing. One old message they meant was: “You’re a flame in my heart.” Reds convey the most passion, yellows friendship, pinks longing and sweet thoughts, whites admiration, respect and purity. Camellias are one of the most romantic flowers around so it is hard to go wrong with them! … VIOLETS are those sweet little flowers we see in the woodlands or receive in a little bouquet we can hold in our hand. Flower sellers in England faithfully sold them in nosegays and they represented faithfulness, watchfulness, modesty, and everlasting love. Their sweet fragrance made them especially popular and they were a symbol of fidelity and humility as well as commitment and love. If you sent a bouquet of violets it meant that you would remain faithful, loving, and loyal no matter the circumstances.

I hope you had fun reading about some of the different meanings of flowers. It was such an interesting adventure to look into the multitude of meanings that flowers can have. In past, I have always simply chosen and sent the ones in season I liked to others for special occasions, birthdays or funerals, considering primarily what flowers seemed most appropriate for a particular holiday or occasion, like Poinsettias for Christmas or Lilies for Easter. Now I suppose I can attach little meaning cards with my floral notes, like: “These yellow tulips mean you’ve brought a lot of happiness to my life.” Maybe you’ll recall one of these “floriography” flower meaning thoughts the next time you take or send someone some flowers.

See you in June with another blog post … LIN

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

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APRIL 2025 – Old Proverbs and Sayings

THOSE OLD PROVERBS AND SAYINGS WERE FULL OF COMMON SENSE

Proverbs and sayings are short expressions of wisdom that convey meaning, beliefs, and insights. They are a part of the oral traditions of a society, often repeated, gradually memorized, and passed down through the generations. Although short, they often offer and portray strong philosophical ideas and sound ethical instruction for living.

For most of us we have heard many of these old proverbs so often that we find ourselves recalling them in our minds or saying them out loud when facing or observing certain life situations. Most proverbs are anonymous and unknown in origin, while many echo Biblical origins, like those from the Book of Proverbs. Many sayings are very old in origin, while some are newer. Many were written down in Benjamin Franklin’s 1732 Poor Richard’s Almanack. Other well-known sayings and bits of wisdom and humor come from more contemporary authors like Erma Bombeck, Garrison Keillor and even Dr. Seuss or from stories, articles, poems, songs and even commercial jingles.

Most all the best-known proverbs are short, from a few words in length like “Forewarned is forearmed” to simple sentences like the Seuss quote: “The more that you read, the more things you will know; the more than you learn, the more places you’ll go” or Erma Bombeck’s witty words: “The grass is always greener over the septic tank.” … In general, proverbs are a simple way of expressing a well-known truth or adage based on common sense or reasoning. Through proverbs and sayings a culture passes along wise truths in an easy, memorable way. The short sayings are interwoven into the daily speech of parents, family members, teachers and others and soon captured and held in the memory.

The value of proverbs is in the wisdom, morality, and common sense they offer for living life wisely and well. Below are some examples of these sayings on a variety of subjects. Some you may know well and some may be new to you. The art of proverbs and sayings is that they seldom need much explanation to be well understood for their wisdom. We would be well-advised to memorize more of these wise words and to repeat and teach them to our children and grandchildren.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT HEALTHY LIVING

  • An apple a day keeps the doctor away.
  • Good health is above wealth.
  • An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
  • You are what you eat.
  • Cleanliness is next to godliness.
  • Old habits die hard.
  • It’s not worth crying over spilt milk.
  • Don’t bite the hand that feeds you.
  • Don’t dig your grave with your own knife and fork.
  • Take care of your body; it’s the only place you have to live.
  • The six best doctors: sunshine, water, rest, air, exercise, and diet.
  • Everything in moderation.
  • Whatever you feed will grow: faith or fear.
  • What goes around, comes around.
  • Eat to live; don’t live to eat.
  • A healthy outside starts inside.
  • Every day we get a chance and a choice.
  • It ain’t over until the fat lady sings.
  • There’s many a good tune played on an old fiddle.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT DAILY LIFE

  • He who plants a tree, plants for posterity.
  • Make hay while the sun shines.
  • Life is what you make it.
  • Haste makes waste.
  • Look before you leap.
  • Better safe than sorry.
  • In every life, a little rain must fall.
  • The best things in life are free.
  • Time waits for no man.
  • Never out off until tomorrow what you can do today.
  • Things are not always what they seem.
  • The best defense is a good offense.
  • Variety is the spice of life.
  • The best doctor gives the least medicine.
  • Life is too precious to only watch it; go live it.
  • If you can’t live longer, live deeper.
  • Change how you see and see how you change.
  • God helps those who help themselves.

PROVERBS AND SAYING ABOUT GETTING ALONG WITH OTHERS

  • Actions speak louder than words.
  • A man is known by the company he keeps.
  • Advice when most needed is least heeded.
  • Do onto others as you would have them do unto you.
  • He who is master of himself will soon be master of others.
  • He who plants thorns must never expect to gather roses.
  • Honesty is the best policy.
  • The cream always rises.
  • Don’t judge a book by its cover.
  • He who forgives ends the quarrel.
  • Practice what you preach.
  • Nothing is so full of victory as patience.
  • Too many cooks spoil the broth.
  • United we stand, divided we fall.
  • Everyone needs help at some time.
  • There is no pillow so soft as a clear conscience.
  • Always look for the good in others.
  • Confession is good for the soul.
  • If at first you don’t succeed, try again.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT WISDOM AND FINANCES

  • All that glitters isn’t gold.
  • A fool and his money are soon parted.
  • If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.
  • Diligence is the mother of good fortune.
  • Money doesn’t grow on trees.
  • The more you get, the more you want.
  • The love of money is the root of all evil.
  • Don’t throw out the baby with the bath water.
  • You can’t take it with you when you die.
  • A penny saved is a penny earned.
  • Business before pleasure.
  • If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.
  • Diligence is the mother of good fortune.
  • If there’s a will, there’s a way.
  • Don’t put the cart before the horse.
  • As you sow, so shall you reap.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS FOR PRUDENT LIVING

  • An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
  • It is better to take many injuries than to give one
  • A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
  • A stitch in time saves nine.
  • Opportunity seldom knocks twice.
  • Don’t cross the bridge until you come to it.
  • Let sleeping dogs lie.
  • Waste not, want not.
  • Necessity is the mother of invention.
  • A place for everything and everything in its place.
  • Don’t buy a pig in a poke.
  • Burnet child dreads fire.
  • Never go to a doctor whose office plants have died.
  • Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill.
  • A rolling stone gathers no moss.
  • Don’t count your chickens before they’re hatched.
  • A tree that is unbending is easily broken.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT WORK

  • Hard work never did anyone any harm.
  • Failing to plan is planning to fail.
  • The first step is the hardest.
  • If a job’s worth doing, it’s worth doing well.
  • A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.
  • Paths are made by walking.
  • Think first and then speak.
  • Hindsight is always twenty-twenty.
  • Easier said than done.
  • Practice what you preach.
  • Rome wasn’t built in a day.
  • Don’t change horses in mid-stream.
  • A wheel that turns gathers no rust.
  • You don’t get something for nothing.
  • Many hands make light work.
  • Don’t give up before you get started.
  • Begin to weave and God will give the thread.
  • Focus on what’s right in your world instead of what’s wrong.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT LIFE’S MISTAKES

  • You can’t unscramble eggs.
  • Chickens will come home to roost.
  • Surrounding yourself with dwarves does not make you a giant.
  • If you don’t want anyone to find out, don’t do it.
  • Worry is worshipping the problem.
  • The ax forgets but the tree remembers.
  • You can’t win them all.
  • A stumble is not a fall.
  • You can’t please everyone.
  • If you fell down yesterday, stand up today.
  • Never give up on yourself.
  • No point in beating a dead horse.
  • No man can paddle two canoes at the same time.
  • Don’t be getting too big for your britches.
  • Always bury the hatchet.
  • A house divided cannot stand.
  • Fall seven times, stand up eight.
  • Don’t do in the dark what you don’t want brought out in the light.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

  • Faint heart never won fair lady.
  • You catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
  • It’s no use locking the stable door after the horse has bolted.
  • Oil and water don’t mix.
  • If you want to go far, go together.
  • Coffee and loved taste best when hot.
  • Two wrongs do not make a right.
  • Always be the first one to say you’re sorry.
  • It’s an equal failing to trust everybody- and to trust nobody.
  • He who falls in love with himself will have no rivals.
  • Let bygones be bygones.
  • It is better to give than to receive.
  • Two heads are better than one.
  • You can’t have it both ways.
  • If you lie down with dogs, you’ll get up with fleas.
  • Know that the most beautiful fig may contain a worm.
  • Share and share alike.
  • The best candle is understanding.
  • What you see in yourself is what you see in the world.

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT THE WORDS YOU SPEAK

  • Speech is silver, silence is golden.
  • Well done is better than well said.
  • First think and then speak.
  • Discretion is the better part of valor.
  • There are two sides to every question.
  • The words you speak are the house you live in.
  • To err is human, to forgive divine.
  • To talk without thinking is to shoot without aiming.
  • A man’s ruin lies in his tongue.
  • Saying is just saying; seeing is believing.
  • It went in one ear and out the other.
  • Better a slip with foot than tongue.
  • Empty vessels make the most noise.
  • Let your conscience be your guide.
  • The pen is mightier than the sword.
  • Of all the words of tongue or pen, the saddest yet it might have been.

PROVERBS ABOUT LEARNING AND EDUCATION

  • The beautiful thing about learning is nobody can take it from you.
  • Anyone who stops learning is old.
  • Education is a better safeguard of liberty than a standing army.
  • Failure teaches success.
  • Jack of all trades, master of none.
  • It’s the early bird that gets the worm.
  • If you are determined to learn, no one can stop you.
  • If at first you don’t succeed, try again.
  • Put your best food forward.
  • Practice makes perfect.
  • A teacher is better than two books.
  • There’s always one more thing to learn.
  • Spare the rod and spoil the child.
  • Who God does not teach, man cannot.
  • Idle hands are the devil’s workshop.
  • You can drive a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink.
  • The expert in anything was once a beginner.
  • There’s no shame in not knowing; the shame lies in not finding out.

I hope you’ve had fun reading all these old sayings and proverbs and, perhaps, remembering times when you’ve heard them or said them yourself. Think about the wisdom in these words this month … and try to live a little kinder and better. Like an old Maori proverb: “Turn your face toward the sun and the shadows fall behind you.” Every day can be a new day, and a better day, if you make it so. Those who wish to sing always find a song.

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See you again in May!!

Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

MARCH 2025 – New Mountain Home Book

I have a new book coming out April first, titled THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE. It’s my sixth book in the Mountain Home series… a new group of stand-alone novels set around the mountain areas near my home in Tennessee. These follow my earlier Smoky Mountain series of twelve books. Past Mountain Home books have taken readers to the small community of Happy Valley near the Foothills Parkway, to the Glades near Gatlinburg, to historic Dandridge, to Cherokee, and to the charm of Waynesville. THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE takes readers to Townsend, Tennessee, where I set two earlier books before, but this time with new characters and new places, as well as old familiar ones, and adding scenes around Walland, Rocky Branch, Maryville, and even a trip to Gatlinburg.

The idea for this book began when J.L. and I were driving through the Townsend area after a hike in the nearby Smoky Mountains. We stopped at a local drive-in on the highway that we love, called the Burger Master, to get a dip cone as a treat. As we left and drove up the main highway afterward, I noticed for the first time a mill dam spreading all the way across the Little River. I was already familiar with the Peery’s Mill dam closer to Maryville, but for some reason I’d never noticed this smaller one. Where there’s a mill dam, there was usually a mill at one time as mill dams were created to divert a swift stream of water into the mill to power it. My curiosity was up now, and J.L. and I stopped to walk closer to look at the spill of water cascading over the dam in a long waterfall. It didn’t take my active imagination long to imagine that a scenic old mill might have sat right across the river at one time long ago.

I’d already been wanting to set another book in the Townsend-Walland area, and J.L. and I had driven around both areas a few times exploring and looking for places to set a new book. After learning that few people seemed to even know the history of the mill dam in Townsend, I decided it would be fun to create a story around this site with a fictitious historic mill I decided to name the Red Mill. Over the weeks to come, around my other work, a new story linked to this mill began to develop in my imagination. My main characters I named Ella Quinn and Jesse Helton after finding photos that “felt” to me how they looked in my heart and mind. I like the characters in my books to look more like real and regular people rather than movie-star types. I decided Jesse would be a local boy with family in the area, but that Ella would come here for a stay at her Quinn grandparents, who owned and operated the Red Mill and lived on the land beside it. Early questions were: What had brought Ella to Townsend at this time? Where had she been? What had been going on in her life? And for Jesse: What might have brought him back home if he’d left earlier? To put a touch of fun in the story, I decided Ella and Jesse had known each other as kids, playing together when she came for visits at her grandparents. And now, of course, they’d both grown up and changed, with problems that needed to be worked out.

Ella, I decided, would have come from Boston, Massachusetts, where she worked at a lovely downtown bookstore called the Chestnut Street Bookstore, owned by a gracious woman named Adelynn Lake, who had become like a mother to her. Adelynn’s death, the closing of the store, and Ella’s grandmother falling and breaking her arm would bring Ella back to Townsend for a time to help out and to try to figure out what to do next with her life. Family problems would have brought Jesse home after college, not revealed at once in the book but unfolding as the story progresses, adding to the unsolved mystery going on in my story.

Around edits and publication of other books and ongoing signing events, J.L. and I took many fun trips over the months to the Townsend and Walland areas near the Smoky Mountains, visiting shops, restaurants, walking and exploring the biking and hiking trails, and driving down backroads to become familiar with the overall area that would be in my book. As my ideas grew, I scribbled notes on local maps, picked up brochures, and began to further develop the plots and adventures that would be in this new story. As my storyline and plot progressed, I decided to call this new novel THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE, and to create a local bookstore in the vacant historic store that stood right across from the old mill. The fact that Townsend doesn’t have a bookstore, that the local library closed in past and that my favorite Hastings Bookstore nearby in Maryville had closed, too, made me want to create a local place, if only in story, for book lovers and book signings.

Secondary characters soon began to develop in my planning to enrich the story. I became especially fond of Jesse’s grandparents Naomi and Hershel Quinn, of Ella’s father Palmer Quinn in the Air Force, of her mother who’d died, her friends in Boston, and of the new friends she made in Townsend while visiting. It was a joy creating the historic property of the Red Mill, it story and land along the river, the Quinns’ home, and all the relatives and friends of their family.

I did a lot of research to create a grist mill accurately for this book, visiting several old mills around the East Tennessee area and learning the history of grist mills and how they operate. Mills were linked into the entire fabric of the East Tennessee area, and I enjoyed talking to a lot of “old timers” and those who had grown up in the area to learn more about Townsend and Walland’s past. I took the tour of the Old Mill in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee, and was blessed that Emmett Denney gave my tour that day. He’d grown up in the Pigeon Forge area and had started working at the Old Mill at only sixteen, walking to work from his home nearby. He was a wealth of information and helped me to develop my Red Mill to be historically accurate.

For Jesse’s family I created a local repair store, one of those wonderful small-town shops that can fix most anything electrical, old and new. It was his family’s long-time business, and Jesse had grown up between working at the business in Townsend and on the family farm in Walland. I think you’ll love Jesse’s warm-hearted family, Ima Jean and Vernon Helton and his grandfather Leonard Helton, and visiting their business and big farm in Walland in the Rocky Grove area. A lot of businesses, restaurants, places and local attractions find their way into this new story that you can really see and visit yourself when in the Walland and Townsend area someday.

Jesse and Ella both loved the outdoors, hiking, biking, and tubing on the Little River, walking the trails and side roads around Townsend and around the Helton farm in Walland. J.L. and I hiked a lot of trails around the nearby Smokies that might find a place into the story … enjoying the Schoolhouse Gap Trail off Laurel Creek Road and re-hiking the Middle Prong Trail, another favorite not far from Townsend. We also walked long sections of the Townsend bike trail that runs from one end of town to the other, and we enjoyed discovering several new places we hadn’t known about before. I had the additional pleasure of bringing back old businesses and characters from my past Townsend books, TELL ME ABOUT ORCHARD HOLLOW and DOWN BY THE RIVER, into this new story. I seldom put “real” people I know into my books, but in this book I made an exception, also bringing in lots of crafter friends to be vendors at Mill Day, and letting “real” locals I know make cameo appearances in their shops and businesses.

When all the research and planning was done and the book was outlined in plot and action, I created and put up my Collage Board, showing an array of pictures of the characters and places in my book. I love glancing up at all the pictures on my board, which I prop behind my computer, while I work. They make me feel I’m right among them all, can hear and see them. I especially liked Dr. Merrill Cunningham I created for this story and his wife, Gail, and the idea of the small-town doctor who still knows his patients well, and it was fun to create Ronnie and Rachel Green, and their bluegrass singing group Green River. Pets found a place in the story, too with Quinn’s corgi Pepper Jack, his name inspired from one of my fan’s daughter’s little dog, and with the Mill Cats.

I hope you’ll enjoy all the characters and the story in THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE. The book is already available for pre-order and you can order it through your favorite local bookstore or online retailer.  If you would like personally signed copies, you can order the book through our online bookstore after the publication date of April 1st … or even better, if you live near our East Tennessee or North Carolina area of the world, plan to come to one of our book signing events. You will find these listed on my Author’s Website on the Appearances page at: www.linstepp.com/appearances/.  Our spring events can also be found in my new March Newsletter, just posted at: https://linstepp.com/media-2/ … My monthly Blog and Newsletter are put on my Website at about the first of every month, always free for my readers, fans, and friends with no need to subscribe to an email list. … I hope you’ll love my latest Mountain Home book THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE

….See you here next month….LIN

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Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

 

 

 

 

FEBRUARY 2025 – New Lighthouse Sisters Book

The Light Continues CoverMy new book THE LIGHT CONTINUES, the fourth book in the Lighthouse Sisters series, publishes on April 1st, 2025. It is already up for pre-order in print and before the end of February will be up in eBook also. You can read about this book and each book in this series on my website under “Books” at The Lighthouse Sisters Series. In this blog post I thought I’d tell you a little about how this four-book series came to be, and a little about each book, in case you haven’t started reading this new South Carolina coastal series yet. You have time now to read all three of the first titles before the new, final book THE LIGHT CONTINUES publishes in April.

Winter is a marvelous time to think of the beach, when the weather in my home state of Tennessee grows cold, gray, dreary, and snowy.  Some years ago, after a visit to our favorite beach at Edisto Island, South Carolina, I had the idea to create a trilogy of books set at Edisto. Since by that point I had written multitudes of books set around the Smoky Mountains near where I live and had built a big fan base of readers who loved them, it was a shift in my writing focus to consider writing a book set at the beach and to consider writing books in a series when my books previously had all been stand-alone novels, each book set in a different place around the mountains with different characters and with a new, unconnected story each time.

I talked to my editor at Kensington at the time about the idea and she said, ‘Lin, your readers love your books. They’ll love going to the beach with you. Write your Edisto books.’ So in the cold of winter not long after,  I wrote the first book in the Edisto Trilogy titled CLAIRE AT EDISTO. Readers loved it, fell in love with Edisto, and the book even won the Best Book of the Year award in Fiction Romance that year in American Book Fest’s huge contest. The second two books, RETURN TO EDISTO, Mary Helen’s story, and EDISTO SONG, Suki’s story, followed in the next two years about Claire’s girls when they grew up, . After these books published, fans were eager for me to write more coastal books along with continuing to write mountain books.

After visiting a couple of lighthouses around the South Carolina coast while vacationing and later reading about the history of lighthouses, I began to wonder what it might have been like to grow up on a lighthouse island, which is  called a Light Station. Many of the large, old light-keeper’s homes built by coastal lighthouses have now been made into bed and breakfasts, welcoming guests and giving tours of the nearby lighthouse. As that idea started to grow in my mind, I began to envision four sisters growing up on a lighthouse island, the old inn and lighthouse in their family for several generations. This idea for a second series of stories I decided to call The Lighthouse Sisters and I was soon building the new books in my imagination and mind.

Now the research and planning began. To me series books are harder than stand-alone books because the story of each has to thread into the others and they all have to tie together in their plots and conflicts. The facts, people, places, and timelines must be consistent from one book to the next, and hints for books to come have to be subtly laid from book to book, leading to the final one in the series. I decided to set this series of books on the north end of Edisto Island. The Edisto Trilogy books had been set on the well-developed south end of the island at Edisto Beach, but the lighthouse books needed a more remote setting and the book needed an island separated from the mainland.

I soon discovered that an island piece of the Botany Bay area, usually labeled on maps as Botany Bay Island, had broken away from Edisto’s mainland after a hurricane in the fifties and was now in a conservatorship  and scantily populated.  I tracked down people linked to the island and soon had my okay to set a book there and to use the island fictitiously for a novel. To avoid confusion for the book series, I renamed the island Watch Island, a name it had been called earlier in its history, and I named the Lighthouse after the Deveaux Bank, a bird sanctuary island a mile out in the sea beyond it. Soon the Deveaux Inn and the Deveaux Lighthouse on the hill above it and the Deveaux family who lived there, running the inn and tours, and taking care of the lighthouse and island began to become “real” people to me.

Over time I developed my main characters and side characters, my setting, homes, businesses and the general plots for each book. As the characters and places came to life in my mind I found pictures to match how I saw my “book people” and “book places” and soon created a collage bulletin board to prop beside my computer desk… so I could see all the photos as I worked for inspiration. My primary characters were the four sisters and Ella Deveaux, their mother and owner of the Deveaux Inn and Light Station owner, who had lost her husband in the last year. As the story begins, the oldest daughter Burke is still living at home, helping her mother run their inn and business, and giving tours of the lighthouse as her father had done before. Her sister Lila had come home after their father’s death, and she was helping, too, especially in running the lighthouse gift shop. As the first book moves along, focusing on Burke’s life, who has, by necessity, taken on many of her father’s roles, you come to know the family, the island, and the coastal area around Edisto. As Easter nears in the story, another sister, Gwen, who had been living in Arkansas with her husband and children, shows up unexpectedly, her marriage in trouble. As the family continues not to hear from Celeste, the third sister, a well-known country singer, who lives in Nashville, Gwen and Burke head to Nashville, concerned. They find Celeste, only recently home from hospital, after being beaten and abused by her husband, so they load her up to bring her home for rest and recovery.

Here you’ll see scenes from LIGHT THE WAY, the first book in The Lighthouse Sisters Series and scenes from around the island that are a part of this story. If you have not read this first novel in the series, here is a brief synopsis: Life had grown hard for Burke Deveaux at the family inn and lighthouse since her father died. She missed his warmth and still expected to see him walking into a room, his big laugh booming. Burke and her mother were gradually adjusting to the change, and Lila had come home this winter to help, but the workload was heavy. With spring coming and tourism picking up in the South Carolina Lowcountry, Burke welcomed Hal Jenkins’ request for his son Waylon to work for them. Waylon, retiring early from the Navy, knew the island and the lighthouse, having grown up nearby. Burke also knew Waylon well since they’d grown up together. He’d always been older, and she wondered how he’d see her now.Waylon had been away from Edisto Island for over twelve years now, traveling around the world in the military, but he was glad to be home again. He hated learning Lloyd Deveaux was gone, the warm-hearted Lighthouse Keeper he’d followed around as a boy. But he liked the idea of coming to stay at the lodge at Watch Island to help the Deveaux family with the inn, lighthouse, and nearly five-hundred acres of land the Lighthouse Station occupied. He knew Burke had picked up many of her father’s old tasks and he looked forward to seeing her again. He had long kept feelings he held for her clamped down but one look at Burke brought them all surging back, giving him a new problem to handle, knowing he’d be working closely with Burke at the lighthouse.

I won’t tell more as my books are full of rich story, problems, joys, and conflicts that will make you feel you’re right there at the Deveaux Inn and Lighthouse with all the characters. Gwen’s story is told in the second book, LIGHTEN MY HEART, and you will really see Gwen’s pain over the betrayal in her life and suffer with her and the children as they try to find their way, leaving their home in Arkansas and all they know. Gwen is a teacher and as she makes the decision to stay in the area and to find a teaching job and make a new life, she decides, early in the story, to accept a job  at a school in Port Royal, a charming, historic community right below Beaufort. She finds a townhouse to rent near her new school, and then, with shock, runs into her husband, Alex Trescott, in Beaufort. Apparently, with the Arkansas restaurant where he worked closing, he’d come home to work again in his family’s restaurant, Trescott’s, in downtown Beaufort. It’s a memorable scene! I think readers will enjoy visiting in Beaufort and Port Royal where many scenes in this book are set … and struggling through Gwen and Alex’s problems of separation. Old characters from the first book thread through this story plus many new side characters and conflicts, making it an engaging and fun read, with the children’s stories mixed in.

The third book is Celeste’s story, LIGHT IN THE DARK, the third of the Deveaux sisters and a well-known country music singer. Her first husband died unexpectedly and she unwisely got involved with another singer, who she soon learns is riddled with emotional problems, giving him a true Jekyll and Hyde personality. She has to find her way to recovery after being beaten and hospitalized and then decide how to handle the situations in her life and move on with her career. You’ll enjoy Celeste’s story, touching into the big entertainment world. You’ll also love all the scenes in downtown Charleston that are a part of this book and the many warm and interesting characters you’ll meet on Celeste’s journey, like Reid Beckett, who remembers Celeste from earlier years. I had a wonderful time as a writer visiting all over Charleston while working on this book… and I liked that Gwen’s and Celeste’s stories take my readers to new places they can visit when in the South Carolina Lowcountry area.

The final book, THE LIGHT CONTINUES, that publishes April 1st, is Lila Deveaux’s story. It is set mostly on Watch Island, at the Light Station, but takes in a broader scope than just the lighthouse island alone, reaching out to give the reader a look at all of Edisto Island as a whole and of plantation life at one of the beautiful old antebellum homes I fictitiously created and named Indigo Plantation. The plantation now belongs to Edward Calhoun, who is forced to come home to try to deal with what he will do about being the new owner of the plantation after his father’s death. Readers soon learn the problems Edward faced at home earlier, and also watch him eager to renew his old friendship with Lila Deveaux. Lila, however, is reluctant to move forward in a relationship with Edward, seeing and knowing his problems and indecision, and dealing with the changes in her own life as well. She has only recently left a community of Episcopal sisters she’d entered after college, believing she wanted to spend her life serving God there. A solace for her has been her art, which she is developing and growing into a solid career, and her family and the inn. Wanting not to miss God again in her decisions, she is cautious about her relationship with Edward. How both find their way to a new life and understandings about past hurts and pains is a sweet part of this story. I think you will richly enjoy this last book about the Deveaux family and the beauty of the South Carolina Lowcountry.

In the photo here, you’ll see me reading one of the Lighthouse Sisters books on my last visit to the island on the screened porch in the lovely vacation house where my husband J.L. and I stayed. J.L. and I have visited Edisto almost every year since the 1980s, enjoying the quiet island, the beautiful beach, Edisto’s bike trails, quaint shops, restaurants, and places of interest, all which will come to life for you while reading these books. Just as we often took side trips to spend the day exploring and enjoying nearby Beaufort, Port Royal, Hunting Island, and Charleston, so will you.

I wish you happy reading and a lovely escape from the winter cold as you enjoy these books for the first time, or perhaps for a second time—and as you hopefully look forward to the final book in this Lighthouse Sister Series, THE LIGHT CONTINUES, soon to publish April 1st.

In March, I’ll tell you all about my new Mountain Home book, THE RED MILL BOOKSTORE, set in Townsend on the quiet side of the Smoky Mountains, also publishing in early April. Two books to look forward to! You can also see many book signing events already set for spring where you can come to see me and pick up my new books and any of my past books, too. Check my website under “Appearances.”

See you next month!!! … Lin

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Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.

 

 

JANUARY 2025 – More Good Things in 2025

It’s okay to want MORE for yourself for 2025—but the secret to happiness, joy, and fulfillment and the secret to daily contentment is to want MORE of the right things. This list posted reflects some of the things I’d like MORE of in 2025, and I think I’ll make “seeking” them a priority of my New Year’s Resolutions. We each have to purposefully seek the things we want more of in our lives but I hope you might enjoy sharing in my thoughts about my list and perhaps you will find you want to put some of these things on your New Year’s MORE list, too.

MORE SLEEP: Every good day in life starts with getting enough restful sleep. It affects the way you think, feel, work, and learn, your health, happiness, and how you get along with others. I’m a big believer in turning off the visuals, reading improving literature, quieting the mind, focusing on the positive and counting my blessings as I settle in to sleep because sweet, untroubled sleep is the key to a richer and more positive day…. “Sleep is the energy you need to be effective tomorrow” [Tom Roth]. … “Tired minds don’t plan well” [Walter Reisch].

MORE MUSIC: The right kind of music is a positive to life. Good music—going to the symphony, listening to the classics or other favorites, tapping my toes to bluegrass or oldies, or singing along with hymns—lifts my spirits. Keep in mind that music, like spoken words, is a powerful force that can positively or negatively impact your life. So choose wisely. When it’s good, “music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything” [Plato]. “Music is the divine way to tell beautiful poetic things to the heart” [Pablo Casals].

MORE TEA: I’d like to add More Tea into my year—tall glasses of iced tea with mint or fruity flavors and warm mugs of hot tea in the evening as I curl up to read. The English have always had it right about “a cup of tea” being the answer to most everything. “Tea is a gentle reminder to slow down and savor the moment” [anon].  “A cup of tea is a cup of peace” [Seri Sshitsu]. More tea this year would be nice.

MORE BOOKS: It should go without saying that I want to read More books and write More books in 2025. It is through books that my mind, heart and soul are enriched and satisfied. “What a blessing it is to love books” [Elizabeth von Arnim].….”Books are the plane and the train and the road. They are the destination and the journey. They are home” [Anna Quindlen].

MORE SUNSESTS: I want to take time to notice More sunsets and More beauty this year. You’ll notice I didn’t say sunrises. I well know I am not an early morning person, but I savor the beauty of the day, the start of evening, and the loveliness in the world. And I want to savor those things more. “Every sunset is uniquely beautiful and so are we” [anon]. “Never go too long without watching a sunset” [anon].

MORE CREATING:  I want to do more creating this year—and to try creating in new ways. “The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul” [Dieter F. Uchtdorf]. We all have so many more creative gifts than we utilize and I want to discover and use more of mine. “What keeps life fascinating is the constant creativity of the soul” [Deepak Chopra]. I want more of that in 2025.

MORE LONG WALKS: I definitely want to take more long walks and hikes this year. Time outdoors always lifts my heart and spirit, and I love being in the beauty of nature. As John Muir so wisely wrote: “In every walk with nature, one receives far more than he seeks.” …“After a day’s walk, everything has twice its usual value” [G.M. Trevelyan]. I am enriched walking—and it’s the type of exercise I most love—and I want and need more of that.

MORE LAUGHTER: I definitely need to laugh more in 2025, a hard task in this world today. But I know there should be more fun and laughter in my daily life. Laughter is healing and healthy and as Madeleine L’Engle wrote: “A good laugh heals a a lot of hurts.” …“Laughing is good for you; it’s like jogging on the inside” [Kurt Vonnegut]. I have a deficit of laughing as a serious type. I know I need more laughter! Don’t we all?

MORE HUGS: I am big on “hugging” and want to continue to be a hugger. Sometimes “there is more power in a good, strong hug than in a thousand meaningful words” [Ann Hood]….”Hugs are a simple, yet meaningful way to show someone they matter, they are safe, they are accepted, and they are loved” [anon]. I believe that, and I like hugs!

MORE DREAMING: Research shows dreaming while awake is a form of creating and planning, so I definitely want more “Awake Dreaming!” Eleanor Roosevelt wrote: “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams” and John Maxwell wisely added, “Dreams don’t work unless you do.” So for myself, I want to Dream More and Do More. What good is a dead dream? We need to live our dreams. “Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world” [Harriet Tubman].

MORE ROAD TRIPS: Yes, I do want more Road Trips this year. We’ve visited a lot of new places working on all our parks guidebooks, and I’ve found so much joy in those travels. It’s true that “life is beautiful if you are on the road to somewhere” [Orhan Pamuk] and especially when you’re exploring on interesting backroads. “Road trips are the equivalent of human wings” {Victoria Erickson]. We may not be able to fly there, but we can drive there…. And road trips nearby are as fun and interesting as long trips to far-away places.

MORE FUN: Serious-minded people, of which I am one, have to work harder to make more fun in their lives. And I want to do more of that. It’s healthy. As Dr. Seuss said: “It’s fun to have fun.” We know well how to have fun as kids but when we become adults we forget how to really have fun and we neglect to find ways to do it more. I think maybe this should be the year to remember how much fun life can really be and to make more fun in our lives. “Never, ever, underestimate the importance of having fun” [Randy Pausch].

MORE LOVE: Good words to close. We all need to love more. The world needs it: we need it. We all carry the capacity to love, but we don’t all use it well. We feel it but don’t find ways to express it. “Love is more than a feeling—it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing” [Wm Arthur Ward]. Love makes us get out of the smallness of ourselves, and “Love is shown more in deeds than words” [Saint Ignatius]. I believe if we keep ourselves in the love of God, we love sweeter and better, too. I daily want to do more of that. “The most important thing in life is to live your life for something more important than your life” [William James].

Do MORE to be your best self this year whatever your goals … and don’t forget to have some joy along the way!… Happy 2025. … See you in February… Lin

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Note: All photos my own, from royalty free sites, or used only as a part of my author repurposed storyboards shown only for educational and illustrative purposes, acc to the Fair Use Copyright law, Section 107 of the Copyright Act.